A serious problem (dating) =( help plz!! especially girls ?

Question

Well, first of all i'm 16 and a half years old now.. I'm russian, but i live the whole "high school" year in lebanon (since dad works there), and i spend every summer in my country, russia.. in moscow.

I have never had a gf till now, my friends began getting gfs when they were like 14. I know i can't get a gf for 3 months (summer) because that would be really bad leaving her really soon.

But i know it's very bad that i don't have a gf and i feel like unormal because i never had one.

My friends (girls and boys) tell me that i have a good personality, that i care about people, people can trust me, i'm very funny, sweet etc.. But i'm a bit shy sometimes (like i rarely do the first step in order to talk to the girl), and i'm a futur musician, i have a band, i play piano, guitar, keyboads and write my own music. I'm half pro in soccer (been playin since i was 2 y/o). I read a lot, i know a lot of information about different stuff.. i do my own animations and comics on pc (write script and do everything else..)

That's me:

http://img139.imageshack.us/my.php?image=1000511yk2.jpg

http://img139.imageshack.us/my.php?image=1000510io5.jpg

http://img139.imageshack.us/my.php?image=1000509gp5.jpg

Plz tell me what's wrong with me, why i can't get a gf.. help me plz.. I feel really horrible :(

I know i'm not smiling in the pics lol, i don't have any smiling pics uploaded on the internet ^_^

Thanks from now!

Answer 1

well first, you gotta try to get over your fear of taking the first step! girls love when a guy has the guts to ask them out. and second,dont try to find a girlfriend. just become friends with girls and see if any of them interest you enough for you to date! your deffinitly not ugly, so just find the courage  

Answer 2

right mate i have the perfect solution for you

firstly: get  a hair cut to something alittle more stylish :D  then wear some t-shirts like nike adidas things like that. then go out alot with your friends and meet girls and then you will get to know then and maybe start dating. and finally make sure u always smell good for the ladies. i hope thi shelped

Answer 3

youre so cute..stuff girls be g*y =)

my best friend cheese told me to say you should go on a dating site

Answer 4

i think you should get a different haircut, like cutting your hair a bit shorter? umm... but that's just my preference, so well, i don't know...

thing is, you look younger than 16 to me, so maybe that's it? maybe girls your age look more mature and stuff like that?? i don't know...

but you look fine...

maybe it's just because you are shy... try to be more communicative around girls... you have a lot to talk about, and music is something that girls are interested in.

Answer 5

well i just think you are just trying wayyy too hard to get one.. dont jsut settle for anything.. just wait.. the perfert girl will come soon.. just dont rush anything becuase that will lead to problems just go with the flow be yourself and some girl will see that in you and love you for who you are

Answer 6

well your definetly not ugly =] oh and maybe try not to look for a girlfriend all this time i thought i wanted a boyfriend but in realty i just wanted a really good guy friend ya know?

aww theyres nothing wrong with you, sometimes you just cant rush into things yea even i feel lonely at times too but trynna cover that up with a lover isnt it sometimes just having a best friend in the opposite s*x helps

and you dont have to engage a girl to ask them out become friends best friends even so that you wont have to be so shy.. hope i helped =]

Answer 7

awww, is that your little sister? shes so cute...and infatuated with you =D anyway...seriousness diff haircut, maybe just like bed hair but shorter...diff clothes.

Answer 8

You look pretty good. But I think you are a bit shy in nature, that is, the behind the screen guy. It is not a big deal if you ask me, if you don't have a girl friend or so. Just enjoy what you do and they will find you. Other than that, you may want to give a try on Davide De-Angelo's e-book on dating. It's a solid one and worth spending. Subscribe to his newsletter as well.