A s*x question, Is this bad?

Question

Ok well I'm 18 and have been with the same guy for a few years now, we've been having for s*x for almost a year and in the last few months it has gotten more painful when we start. I do get frequent UTI and Yeast Infections, and I'm hoping that this is all that its caused from. He is so afraid he is hurting me, and that he's the source of all of these problems. I don't think he is, I'm sure it's either a medical problem or maybe it's just normal and I'm a pansy. Please help me, we're both worried, and I need to know what to do quickly.

Answer 1

Go to a dr sweetie.  I am sure that there is a simple reason, but you are apt to find answers from someone qualified rather than someone on yahoo.

Answer 2

go to a doctor

Answer 3

It's not normal and you're not a pansy but you do need to understand the probable cause of these infections.

Oddly enough, urine is usually free of bacteria, viruses, and fungi such as yeast spores.  An infection occurs when germs/bacteria from the digestive tract enter the opening of the urethra, usually during s*x, and start to multiply.

The urethra is the pee tube that connects to the bladder and carries wastewater out of your body, and E.coli bacteria, which are normal in the colon, can cause infections.

When these little germs get into the urethra opening, located between your clitoris and v****a, and start to multiply, you have an infection named urethritis.  If the bacteria move upward into the bladder, you have a bladder infection.  When left untreated, the infection can go all the way up and into the kidneys and cause an infection called pyelonephritis.

Your bf and/or s*x partner could also be a carrier of the yeast infection, especially if he is diabetic.

Medications and antibiotics can treat these infections but it's still way better to not have them at all. If he is into anal s*x, stop doing this for a while and see if there is any improvement, if he has not been using condoms, ask him to do that to see if that solves the problem.  If he is unwilling to cooperate, find a new bf and/or s*x partner.

Answer 4

You know, it is possible that you two are not chemically compatible...

I think I have a similar problem with my husband... though not as bad...

Whenever our fluids get together, it smell kinda funky (bordering on really bad) and I never had that happen with my previous partner...

Sh*t happens...

When you go in for a Pap Smear, or to treat the yeast infection (Your OB/GYN or a local Planned Parenthood) make sure you ask the nurse/doctor about it... You could try using condoms for a while, after your current infection goes away, and see if that help.

The best thing (I know you'll hear it from everyone, but it's true, believe me) is to go to the doctor as soon as you get a chance to...

Answer 5

It sounds like a yeast infection to me.  Is there a discharge or itchiness?  

Answer 6

Getting UTI's doesn't come from s*x.  Yeast infections can be caused from a variety of different things.  Make sure you are you cleansing well after each time your with your boyfriend.  Don't douche, just keep clean.  That doesn't meant that you need to jump up as soon as your "finished"!! :)  You should also make an appointment with your gyno asap.  Good luck!

Answer 7

sounds like you need to see the doctor to be safe.

its not him it something with you body so go to the doctor.

Answer 8

go to a doctor just because he is with you doesnt mean he is only with you he could be cheating and could of giving you and std or aids.. i would go get tested... i would have s*x again till you went to the doctor and ot checked out and he got tested..