A sort of private question

Question

When I was younger I used to stare at womens breast jiggling and I thought nothing of it.

As soon as I hit purberty it got worse....and anyway isn't it kind of rude? I went swimming at the pond late in the day by myself and I was wearing some thin pants with no underwear.

I figured I would be by myself so I just swam for a while and on the way back I passed and elderly couple fishing and the pants stuck to my "you know what" and it was jiggling like crazy and very embarrsing. I started running back to my house and of course you can guess what was flopping...... apperntly the neigbors were partying or something but I passed a woman in a Bikini. I was red from head to foot.

Is this how women feel?

Answer 1

Yes, kind of like that.

Answer 2

Since I am a male I can only speculate how women feel about this situation, but I'd venture a guess that what you experienced is pretty much like what women experience when you stare at their b*****s.

  But really,I don't understand how you can say this is a private question when you have asked it of millions of people on a public forum!

Answer 3

yes!

Answer 4

You're  a human male. It happens. You're attracted to and facinated by b***s. Most girls understand, they just want to see a man try to control himself. They like to be respected.  Just try to watch where your eyes are.

Answer 5

omgosh i feel ya dog ur not the only 1

Answer 6

no

Answer 7

The fact that you even have enough sense to ask if that's how women feel tells me you're a little more clued in than the average guy.

As you've been told by a woman -- they know. They just don't want to be stared at and drooled at. If you make an effort to be respectful and control yourself, you're ok.

I mean, there is a reason why you have these urges. It is a natural thing.

Answer 8

Not really.  We have bras to keep our b*****s from jiggling.  They make underwear with support for men, too.  I think it's called the Wonder Jock.  An Australian company makes them.  

If I have to leave the house for a minute without a bra, I DO cross my arms over my chest.  I am embarrassed if not wearing a bra or bathing suit.  But, in general, I don't care if men look at my b***s.  If I didn't want them to look, then I could always wear a sports bra (which smashes them down) or bind them.

Your embarrassment is normal.  My brothers all went through this phase.  Whenever I had friends over to swim, my brothers generally tripped over themselves.  From a girls perspective, as long as you are not rude about it, they like it when you look.  If they are nice girls, they will not make fun of you for a blush, an erection or embarrassing yourself.  Girls like it when you look at them with appreciation.  We like to feel beautiful and desirable.  

Answer 9

that's why people say young boys have 1 thing on their mind you should m********e to help that or get laid that's what i do

Answer 10

Yep.

Its not so nice being on the other side of the fence is it?

Answer 11

Not exactly... For me it is more irriatating then embarassing.  But you got some girls who like it.  But just don't go around staring at girls b***s...sometimes I am sure ou make them feel a little self concious