A way to get her back ?

Question

Hey,OK, over a month ago, me and my girlfriend had to break up cause her parents found out we had s*x at the end of the school year. They're very catholic so it was very bad. So now, were both about to start school and shes in her senior year and i'm starting my first year of college. WE both love each other, but its hard to be positive when we cant talk or see each other. I'm sick of feeling this way and i wanna change it.

I'm thinking about trying to talk to her mom but i dont know how to go about doing it. How should I? Like with one of my parents or by myself? Should i do a note or call asking if i can talk to them, or shoudl i just go one day when they're home and do it?! How should i try talking to her mom? ANd if theres any other ideas on good ways to show them, i'de love ot hear them

Answer 1

Talking to the mom after having s*x with you baby seems like a pretty bad move to me.  She is still in high school living under her parents rules & she broke them.  Of course you are the one that caused her to break the rules (at least that is how mom will frame it).  Both you can get a cam, see each other online & hope mom doesn't bust you again.  I normally prefer the direct approach, but in this case a direct frontal approach will bring less than desirable results.

Answer 2

woooww

umm.

well you should call her mom.

and tell her that you reall love her daughter.

and you didn't hve s*x with her just to do it.

then maybe she'll wanna talk to you in

person..and if it ohk with her parents

letting her go back with you..

prove to them you want let it happen

again...and tell them you wouldnt.

cuz once school starts its going to be hard

really hard...trust me.

Answer 3

Either sneak around and don't tell them or leave her.

You will probably never be able to get into their good books again because you deflowered their precious little virgin. But don't worry you'll get a lot more action in college and will soon forget about her.

So just say you kept up this relationship and ended up marrying her down the road. Her parents would still despise you and that is not a good thing to have in a relationship.

Really the only person who can patch things up with your ex-girlfriends parents is your ex-girlfriend. If she can't break away from their control, then forget about it.

Answer 4

I doubt her parents waited until their honeymoon to have intercourse, which is probably why they are so strict with her.

Since you haven't been able to talk to the girl since the breakup, are you sure she still wants to be with you?

If her parents are that die-hard and strict, then maybe you need to let this sit on the back burner and wait for your girl to contact you.

Plus you are going to be meeting a butt load of pretty new girls that don't live under those conditions.

Let things cool off, and if you still feel this way in another month, then try sending a letter of apology to the parents and see if you can't kick start some form of communication with them.

Answer 5

You need to be responsible for the actions you took with their daughter. You stepped over the line and you knew it. Do not go down the road she, too, was responsible. Talking to Mom only is falling short. Her Dad is the one to be reckoned along with mom.

It will do no good to only talk to Mom. You are right, you need to clean this up with the parents and to not use this as a way to see their daughter. You may have another opportunity or you may not, but that is not the point to meet with them. Be authentic about how you messed up. It will take a big person to do this. Seems like your heart is in the right place.