AAHHHH....what would you do???? help please!!!?

Question

Well tomorrowI'mm going to get my GCSE results and i have made plans to go out with a group of friends after but one of my besbest friendsso want to go out, i asked if maybe she could join us but they would rather she diddidn'tcause she had a bit of a reputation,...thethey'ret even willing to give her a chance, shes changed her life around recently but conconsequentlyst her friends because they were holding her back...what do i do? its really upsetting me, the attitude a few of my friends have towards her...

Answer 1

i hope you have good results ! =]

you are probably going ot college soon , so i wouldn't worry too much about your friends , because in college you will meet completely different new people . and if I'm right , your in the u.k ? and if you are the summer is soon over and your college course is bound to start soon . =] so keep friends with whoever is the nicest to you !  

Answer 2

decide which ones u like more

or dont go with either of them.

meet some new people!

Answer 3

i'm sorry but both groups of friends don't seem very nice, i'd make up an excuse and do something different with family or other friends, because face the facts once you get to college or a job you'll meet new people and you'll drift away from those you hung around with before and friends you meet inn college, job and university are the ones that stick around for the longest, sadly. Like some people have said i'd be more worried about my results, which i am :( good luck btw !

Answer 4

Ditch them and go out with her.

Answer 5

Hey hayley. I know your gut instinct is to stick up for your bestest mate against your friends, but the fact is, If you have previously made plans with your friends you shouldn't ditch them for your best friend. Even though she is your best friend, it's important you don't just have one best friend and you have many friends, so you wouldn't want to get on the bad side of them. As for their attitude, utterly ignoring it will help. Don't make a scene about it, don't create any fuss or tension. After all, as long as it's their attitude and not yours you have nothing to worry about. Have fun days out with best friend, and also you friends, but keep it seperate to avoid tension and make it relaxed.  If you are going out with your friends after GCSE results, go out with them in the day, then in the evening invite your best mate round to get a takeaway and movie. Or a sleepover. She wont feel so rejected this way.

And good luck, I'm getting my results tomorrow!!! Fingers crossed!  

Answer 6

Tell your friends that you would really appreciate if they would give her one chance.  If they say no think about how your best friend will feel.  Because she may not have alot of friends now after having to leave them.  So make sure that she isn't lonely or sad.

Answer 7

What would i do? i would worry about my results rather than some stupid kid