The school teacher reported concern that my son has ADHD. So both the teacher and I completed a questionnaire on his behavior. The survey came back showing that he has ADHD at school, but it all came back as "average" for my questionnaire on his behavior at home, curiously...
I am going to a meeting on Monday, and the people at the school have told me that they've already decided to diagnose him with ADHD. They've assured me that children can have more difficulty at school than at home, and that the ADHD diagnosis will only help him, so I shouldn't fight the diagnosis...
Yet, when I read the criteria for ADHD, it says the symptoms must be present at school and home. Why would the school be OK with diagnosing him with ADHD, if he doesn't present ADHD symptoms at home?
I'm just trying to understand what is going on and how I should approach this next meeting. I don't think disagreeing would do any good, because they haven't listened to me so far. What is the best way to handle this?
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