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AHH! pleasee help me! im soo nervous!

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okay! so i just found out that my bestfriend whos going to high school with me, has ALL different classes. i dont know ANYONE else!

im freaking out!

how can i make friends the first day?

i cant just walk up and be like...HEY whats your name? im pretty sure that would come across as creepy!

can you please share tips of what your did&what your first day was like?

i would REALY appreciate it!

and please just dont say "be yourself" because i do know that! =]

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  1. ok. smile, and practice smiling w/ your eyes. be nice to everyone, but don't give everything away about yourself. that way, people will want to know more about you. and don't worry. their will be many other people in the same position as you. if someone talks to you, keep the conversation going, don't answer questions w/ yes or no. good luckerz, waves of friends ahead!!!!


  2. all you need to do is be friendly. and maybe try complimenting someone, that always makes people feel good!

    youll be fine, dont worry!

  3. Well, I don't go to public school so I don't have that problem. But I take dance classes and when I want someone to be my friend, I just go up to them and say something like "I like your top" or "how do you do your piroutte so smoothly?" So, if you want to be friends with someone, just say something like "where did you get your shoes" or "i love the way you did your hair! how did you do it"

    Good luck! :D

  4. haha. well i've moved a lot im my life so all i do is like start talking to people that look friendly

    im starting high school in a week and we had picture day today which is kinda weird but yeah

    so me and my friends would just like see people by us and be like hi

    and like these hot guys we were just like yelling to them and stuff so yeah

    and actually doing that can totally be like a blast.

    and believe me i understand because im like freaking out because i have no clue if i have any classes with any of my friends

  5. Don't worry you won't be the only one that doesn't know anyone in the first day, there will be plent of other people with the same problem, I'm going into year 9 now and i remember my first day of high scholl, i was soo scared i wouldn't make any friends because all my friends had different classes to me, but luckily i did get to make new friends, i hang out with a whole different group now then i did in primary and there a great bunch of friends! If you need tips just be friendly and start up a conversation, make sure its not random, and smile when you talk to them, just ask them which primary they go to and don't come across as mean or moody, all you have to do is be nice and you'll make friends in no time!

  6. The best, and sometimes the hardest, thing to do is be confident in yourself!! Walk in those class rooms with the mind set that everyone in there would be lucky to talk to you. Don't head straight for the back, pick a seat and stick your nose in a book. Hold your head high and you will have new friends in all your classes in no time!! Goodluck!!

  7. well you don't hae to just walk up to people you could just like talk to the person that's sitting next to you and sit with someone that seems nice at lunch.. everyone feels like that on the first day you'll be fine...

  8. Beside being yourself, you should go into school with a positive attitude. If you stress yourself out too much over making friends the first day you may come off as a little tense. Just relax, feel the atmosphere out, and remember that everyone else is just as nervous as you. More than likely, you will strike up a conversation with the person sitting next to you and just like that you have a new friend.  

  9. High school the memories.

    O.k. here's a line just say "Hi my name is (your name)"

    say that to the people around you, when you say that is sounds like your nice C= After you say that they'll say their name and ask you an question

    I think you can take it from there.Soon you'll meet their friends.

    P.S. Be yourself and you're bound to get friends be friendly and DON'T start drama. At lunch try to spot the people you introduced yourself to remember be yourself and not what people want you to be.

    OHHH and say no to s*x and drugs XD

    Anyway

    Good Luck I hope get more friends and get good grades.

  10. That was the same thing that happened to me. I just started a conversation with people and saw if we clicked. if we did then we were friends. You can sit with people at lunch and talk to them and make friends that way too.

  11. that was me on the first day of jr. high.  im nornally rele shy and i just started to talk to the people next to me and i made a lot of friends

  12. the first day is always nerve racking

    and having all different classes from your friend doesn't help

    the first day don't worry so much about making friends just get used to your classes and such

    when you feel more comfortable with the whole back to school thing

    you don't have to talk to everyone just say hi to a few people you've talked to or seen in the hall before

    if they don't want to talk to you don't keep talking to them

    just be generally friendly and open to conversation and people will surely talk to you

    and by the way saying hey whats your name isn't creepy but if you feel uncomfortable saying that just say hi i'm so and so and then ask their name it isn't as weird because your telling them your name first.

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