AM I concerned or jealous?

Question

My friend Laura and I have known each other for like 5 years. I used to have a huge crush on her, but it had started to go away because I wasn't sure I would see her much again. Well, this year I sit with her and her bf Zach everyday at lunch, but she talks to me most of the time and not him. I have known her like 2 years longer than her bf. I used to think she liked me and she still might. I was actually going to ask her out the same day her bf zach did, so yeah. I don't think zach is right for her because they argue a lot and he looks at a lot of other girls even when with her. Am I concerned for Laura or am I just feeling this way because I think she should be with me?

Answer 1

You are probably both. I think you probably started out jealous and as you saw how he hurt her and that you could be with her it turned mostly into concern.