AM i NORMAL O___O" ? ?

Question

im fifteen. ok so... alot of girls in my school are... outgoing.... and they buy alot of bras with their guy friends. haha usually guys i might add. BUT I AM DIFFERENT. i am sooo embarrsed! going bra shopping. i turn BRIGHT RED when i go with my mom. and usually i have to walk away and let my mom choose my bras and bring it to me in the change room. i feel so weird! and like when we buy pads or something i get all immature. i don't know why.... this is not new to me i had my period in gr.7 and wore a bra in gr.6 -_-"

like i know it is normal for a mother and a daughter to go bra shopping.... but how come i am not comfortable? i mean the girls in my school are so comfortable they buy bras with guys... i am so weird and immature!! ARGHHH

Answer 1

hahah im the same way i can buy bras if im by myselp but pad/tampons i just throw the pack away n hope my mom sees that we are out n buys more if not i have to tell her n i get really shy n nervous when i do

Answer 2

everyone is different my lil sis is the same way as you..its totally normal. everyone has different personalities

Answer 3

i am the same way when my mom and i go bra or pad shoping i walk away and make her get them cuz i get soo embaresed and idk why it is soo wierd...btw i am 15 to  

Answer 4

Your not weird your just different. i'm skinnier than my brother but i'm afraid to take off my shirt. your just growing up and aren't used to the situation. try going with somoeone you trust like a BFF and work your way up.:D

Answer 5

I'd say you're pretty normal.  You really don't need to buy a bra with a guy.  That's a "signal" to him.  I'm much older and I prefer to shop in private as well.  It's not a big deal, but it's just not necessary.  Don't worry about it at all.

Answer 6

your not weird nor immature .

you just come shy to this kinda stuff .

don't worry a lot of other girls have the same problem .

im 14 and im still embarassed .

and those other girls, they're probably hoes or something if they're that 'comfortable' with buying bras with guys .

Answer 7

Different people have different comfort zones.  There is so need to feel pressure to go bra shopping with guys.  (i've never heard of that before...)  BTW, bra shopping with guys does not make you mature.  That sounds weirder to me than feeling uncomfortable.

You may feel differently about these tasks later.

Regarding shopping for pads/tampons, I used to feel embarrassed too.  That is, until I realized that the clerks/cashiers ring up tons of them every day and aren't judging you based on what you're buying.  They probably don't even remember what you purchased.  And, no one else cares either.  When you see someone else with pads in their shopping cart are you disturbed by it?  Probably not.  Neither is anyone else.

Relax.  You're not weird.  

Answer 8

noo haha your not. im 16 and i cant even say the word 'bra' in front of my mom. just do bra shopping online! no problem

Answer 9

you're extremely normal. and it's not that you're immature. you just have class. it's kinda of w***e-ish to go bra shopping with guys at your age.

Answer 10

Haha, well first of all, this does not mean your imature. I don't like going bra shopping with my mom either, it's just akward, but there is nothing wrong with that. You are just a little shy is all. As with a guy, I would never, even with my boyfriend. That's just a little weird at 15, and I would be very imbarassed too. But it doesn't mean your imature, your just a little, (or a lot) shy, and you (like everyone SHOULD), aren't comfortable buying something so personal with the oppsite s*x, or anyone.  

Answer 11

The answer to that is YES.

Answer 12

yea i think your being immature, but in some cases thats usual...you should be more self confidant. boys know what you girls go through, and i guess thats why girls in your school dont have a problem going shopping for bras with them because they know what they need ect. some girls "make" boys go shopping with them for bras just to embarass them or to just make it fun for them:D

Answer 13

Oh don't worry I was the same way. I still hate bra shopping and I am 22, I hardly ever try them on either and I hate when the women ask to do a bra fitting. It will get easier for you though! Everyone has different personalities and those other girls at your school maybe see it as a way to get attention from guys. It is nothing to worry about, you are definitely normal!!!