AM i TOO YOUNG?? i NEED SOME HELPFUL ADViCE.?

Question

OK. iM 19 YRS YOUNG. LOL. AND ME AND MY BOYFRiEND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A LiTTLE WHiLE; WE ARE ENGAGED AND PLAN TO GET MARRiED iN SEPTEMBER. i KNOW iM STiLL YOUNG; BUT i'M HAViN ALL THESE WEiRD FEELiNGS...LiKE i WANT A FAMiLY; AND A REGULAR JOB. WHERE i CAN WORK MY 60 HRS A WEEK AND GO HOME... i CURRENTLY WORK AT A HOSPTIAL WHERE THEY CALL ME IN ALL THE TiME. =(

BUT THE THiNG iS..i WAS A WiLD CHiLD WHEN i WAS iN MY YOUNGER TEENAGE YEARS....i'VE DONE ALL KiNDA DRUGS....DRANK NON-STOP....HAD s*x...THE WHOLE NiNE YARDS....AND NOW i DONT DO ANYTHiNG.... AND EVERYONE iS TELLiN ME THAT i NEED TO LiVE MY LiFE...iN MY EYES...i ALREADY HAVE. i JUST FEEL A LOT OF ADULT FEELiNGS COMiNG ON....MY FRiENDS THiNK iM CRAZY...BUT MY BEST FRiEND iS VERY SUPPORTiVE BECAUSE SHE KNOWS HOW MUCH i LOVE MY FiANCE ERiC. DO U ALL THiNK i NEED TO WAiT LATER; iM VERY MATURE FOR MY AGE; i HAD NO CHOiCE BUT TO GROW UP QUiCK...BUT i AM VERY HAPPY AND A GOOD HEAD ON MY SHOULDERS....WHAT SHOULD i DO OR CONSiDER?

Answer 1

First off Congratz

i dont think you are but i would juss stay together with ya FiANCE for a while like a long engagment ya kno. get ya jobs settled and get used to living together if you dont all ready.

dont worry about the ya friends they want to keep parting let em you have grown up because of what you did, meanin you are on a different level than them so just dont pay them no mind. use your long engagment to save up for you dream wedding so that you dont have to do somethin like take out a loan.

And everyday of your long engagment tell eric how much you love him and that you are glad that you have him

i hope i helped

Answer 2

I think the two of you should wait.

Love is strong feeling. If you guys truely love each other marriage can wait. You have your whole lives to spend with each other, no need to rush it right.

Best of luck to you girl. Im 19 and I live with my boyfriend. Im not engaged yet, but we plan on getting married one day.

Answer 3

i dont think you are too young

Answer 4

i think you need to do what you think is right. which is get married. i dont think you are too young most people are getting married at this age. as long as you are sure its what you want and you love him. thats all that matters. it seems like you are a smart girl since you quit all those things. and yes it does seem like you have lived a very good life and done everything. i think you shouldnt listen to your friends telling you to keep on "living". you seem mature and i dont think they have crossed that point yet. you should get married and fufill your dream of working, having a family, etc. if thats what you really want. live life to the fullest. it could all be gone tomorrow. good luck and follow your heart!! and stick with your best friend she seems like a good one!:)