ANYONE, please give me advice on this. ?

Question

I have a friend, well hes not my friend anymore, and he absolutely hates me and doesn't care about me. but the thing is, i still really want to be his friend and i cant even talk to him. heres what happened-

we always fight about stupid stuff. he calls me dumb and he doesn't treat me good at all but its weird how i still want to be his friend, like I'm not letting go. we were at a party and he told me he was going to ask out this one girl and i was like okay cool. and so i asked the girl if she liked him and she was like nooo not at all why? and i told her that he was going to ask her out and she was like please tell him not to, please. and so i did and he got all mad at ME for going in their business when all i did was make sure she liked him or not. and i always try to talk to him but he always says why are u talking to me? and he told me all i was to him was a stick in the mud and it hurt me. but i still kept trying and i tried saying stuff to him so he can know that i care about him but he just keeps treating me badly. so then i was like hay if u dont care about me at all just come out and tell me and ill never talk to you again. he said "do u want me to spell it out for you? i don't care about you" and so I'm trying so hard to completely leave him alone & i don't know what to do.

Answer 1

you shouldnt have meddled into his situation with the girl thats between him and that girl and if he was going to be rejected well hey thats part of life.

but its pretty obvious hes immature because even though you made a small mistake he over reacted and treated you bed for no reason if he was smart and a good friend who was wothy of yor time he should have talked to you and told you to next time not get involved because he didnt like that and that would be fine.

i think you should leave him completly alone for a while maybe he just wants attention i have a feeling your between age range of 13-17 and boys are incredibly stupid if you havnt noticed yet lol

best of luck with your 'friend'.

:D

Answer 2

O you did care about him, and you were nosey. You made a mistake and should have asked him if he wanted you to do talk to the lady.

But ya, he isn't a very nice person, so take pride in yourself and walk away from him forever. If you don't, You are only teaching him that it is ok to treat women  in demeaning and cruel ways.

Answer 3

u did the wrong thing in the 1st place and now hes all pissed so just leave him alone best 4 u and him...

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Answer 4

let him go he is not worth it

Answer 5

He'll probably come around eventually, though from your perspective, he doesn't sound like much of a friend to begin with. Still, you trampled all through his business without being asked to do so ( a BIG no no) so in the future, don't be so eager to involve yourself in things of that nature. Many folks won't appreciate it. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

just leave him alone and find other friends.  if he treats u badly hes not a friend.