ARIES!!! Why are they so moody & bad tempered almost all of the time???

Question

I'm a Scopio, I am supposed to get along well with Aries. I am almost always in an upbeat mood even if things are getting me down I'll still always be polite & pleasant to everyone around me friends, family, colleagues even strangers. I live with an Aries female sharing rented accomodation. I have known her a long time & people refer to us as "best friends", but since we've lived together I have noticed and am SICK TO THE TEETH OF her moodiness and constant temper type mannerism. She rants and raves about everything hardly ever says anything good about anything or anyone, she seems so selfish and totally taken up with her own precious self, she only seems to enjoy things when she is the centre of attention, she is moving out soon and I cant wait the negativity is unbelievable. If something does'nt directly relate to her she wont take any interest in it, she even says "That does'nt relate to me so I dont give a d**n", Are a lot of ARIES like this? I know 2 more and they are also quite moody, one is even explosive when something does'nt go her way. We "get on" because I am an extremely tolerant person & as she's moving away soon I decided not to confront her about how moody she is or the fact that she does nothing in our home, (she walks off leaving her mess behind all the time, has only done the housework 3 times in a year, has to be reminded when it's her turn to do her share constantly) but to be honest I cannot wait til she moves on, I have realised she is not a very nice person at all! Have you had experience like this with ARIES? Opinions or experince please folks? I am so put off ARIES now I doubt I'll ever put up with another 1.

Answer 1

Scorpio and Aries DON'T get along

Answer 2

WE ARE NOT BAD TEMPERED!!!!!!  OK!!!

Answer 3

yeah your right ,i`m a female aries and sometimes i can be a real **** ole

Answer 4

Yeah we Aries suck huh? We do like to be the center of attention and are quite negative! My gf is a Virgo! Can you imagine how nuts I drive her? lol shes a trooper!

I can be an a*****e all of sudden for no reason! Sometimes im the one thats like whoa whoa why am i being a bit*h?

We are also not too clean. Especially when it comes to housework!!!!! Yuck!

We do have our good side and are quick to TRY and fix our mistake or wrong doings but we really are pain in the asses =/

I have a bad temper too :( but I also have a huge heart.

Answer 5

hahaha it makes me laff readin wot u wrote coz its SOOOO TRUE!!!! LOL

my dad is an aries and altho i luv him 2 bits he is so moody and such a control freak..... if i ask him 4 somethin or 2 do somethin he will b stubborn and go against the idea even if he knows it right so ive now learnt 2 put the idea in2 his head and let him choose and lead the way..... if its his idea hes happy but he wont agree with me 'dictating' (his word for me having an opinion!!!) He always bites off his nose 2 spite his face!!!!

I also lived with an aries housemate and she was even worse wot with female hormones..... if she had had a bad day at work she would come home and not speak 2 me unless she was moaning. She even complained 2 me once in a brief arguement that b4 i lived with her she didnt believe that any1 could b happy all the time n she thought that i would have been moody and tearful at home like her but it killed her 2 realise that i AM happy all the time and if i do get a set back i stay positive!!!!! Honestly wen she went on a downer she'd sometimes b there 4 over a week and unbearable 2 live with..... i know it sounds hurtful but i used 2 tell her 2 pick her face up coz wot she used 2 moan about 2 me was very trivial and i wouldnt even waste my energy on it!!!!

Im a pisces and very happy go lucky.... god i hate 2 b an aries it must be like climbin a mountain every day jus 2 do normal activitiesLOL

Answer 6

I know 4 Aries well I am a Scorpio too 1 of them is a young teen and he's very nice polite and full of fun but when he looses his temper he really looses it. The other 3 are females ranging in age from 28 to 44 and they are moody, selfish and easily aggessive, I have seen all 3 of them burst in fits of temper over things that seem really trivial. I just back off and remind myself that they look so stupid loosing it like a 4 year old having a temper tantrum. Just keep being who you are and dont lowere yourself to her level by loosing your temper. she sounds like a bit of a cow anyway whether she's aries or not!

Answer 7

My Hub is a Aries they mean well don't take it personal.

Answer 8

I have an aries friend and she is the most easy going person i've ever met and i shared a house with her for 2 years.  we've never had an argument but i have 2 scorpio friends who are very moody and snappy, they can say what they want to whoever they want but if anyone looks crooked at them they're off sulking.  

Answer 9

How can you say that about Aries? They are the most tender loving people in the world.  But like most people they just don't like Scorpions.

Answer 10

She must like you in a lukewarm way, enough to live with you. My best friend is an Aries and I wouldn't trade her for the world. However, she does NOT treat all her friends the same. If she likes you, she will do anything for you. Even go out of her way. If  she doesn't, you'll be able to tell.  You're on your own. She is a die hard friend and very very honest and LOYAL. It doesn't matter whether it's good or bad, you always get the truth and they can be blunt (ouch!). Their key planet is Mars (the planet of war). They are quick tempered and agressive, but they get over things quite quickly.When she gets mad, I tend to ignore. Lol. She gets easily excited as easily as she gets mad. Very up and down, very moody and selfish (she says it herself). But, I don't care, because no one is perefect and she deals with my bs too. They like to be first and they hate losing and they get bored after the challenge is gone. Most Arians are like this, but I think its adorable and hilarious. There's never a dull moment as most fire signs like a little drama/like to have fun and you're a Scorpio, so I can imagine you could be quite dramatic and sensitive yourself. I couldn't really picture you living with an Aries as a Scorpio. I'm a Libra, and I feel like we are one of the few that balance them out being they're our opposite sign.    

Answer 11

Yeah you might have this backwards, I've always heard scorpios are mean people

Answer 12

well i can honestly say the only way that i am moody is when others show no interest,i always do my share of work,as well as everyone Else's,that's in the home,i just keep myself to myself,because others within my family don't think like me,and that's the only reason,obviously everyone has traits etc,its how you channel them,why don't you point it out to her,sometimes its all it takes,she may realise your right,after she has denied it,lol.its not necessarily bad tempered it could be frustration,i think they can be caring and loving,i know a lot of people believe we are arrogant we are not its just us we are confident in ourselves when we believe in our selves,like everything else we get tainted by those around us,oh well,dont give up because of one bad experience,everyone is different..

Answer 13

Haha good for you you have meet an aries, that's how they are usually aggressive and stupid, u know hit they head against the wall until wall falls apart?? And no, scorpio and aries doesn't get along well not indeed, u are weveryeep and perspective but aries bebelieveshat he/she sees only. Try next time earth and water signs.  

Answer 14

Because people keep SHOUTING at us maybe? Lose the capital letters loser!

Answer 15

well i know some aries. one of them was my best friend. we still talk now and then. i actually get along better with her when we don't see eachother alot. cuz like u said aries and how everything has to be all about them. and i like attention too soo it just dosent work. we would always be fighting for everyones attention. it was bad and we would argue about it too. im a pisces. i get along pretty well with scorpios. not aries. u should definitly go for water and earth signs like others said. yupp. thats it.

Answer 16

Well it happens to all of us, fire signs can be temperamental.!!!

Answer 17

My Hubby is an Aries and i know sometimes he is a pain in my a ss and if he's very pissed off his language isn't good neither.

Answer 18

I'm an Aries, my Husband is an Aries.. we're ALL ARIES.

Answer 19

I'll be very honest here...THATS AN ARIES for yah..thats how they usually are..don't get me wrong they are nice people ..WHEN SOMETHING OR SOMEONE BENEFITS them. But hey, I guess you also have to look at their whole chart..but If I had to agree or disagree in this case I would agree thats an Aries. My ex was also an Aries and very very arrogant and had a nasty temper. She was wonderful when something benfitted her. Anyways Thats how they are..and do you think they care what we think or say? NO. LOL and I have heard scorpios and aries dont get along. Well anyways..goodluck in the future. Oh and another thing, you not putting up with another Aries..well good for you..I'm also staying away from them...relationship wise. they are dangerous.

:D

Answer 20

they have aggression to burn off periodically--it has to go somewhere....cardinal fire........aries are competitive....all cardinal signs are.....and they like to win too, but not always (they might not aware of the latter), but they like fair games.....aries may be the sorest losers of the zodiac, but they rarely like to enroll in an unfair battle (all fire signs have a sense of 'honor').......

leave the inane battles for the earth signs....fire is too feisty for them...

Answer 21

For better or for worse -Aries are assertive. I have known Gorgeous Aries who express the higher octave of the sign and not so gorgeous ones. I totally relate to what you say. But there are sweet ones too who will stick up for you. But in this case, I hope this is over for you soon! She sounds like negotiation isn't a word she would like. Let her go...and then let out a loud scream and relax. As Bob Dylan put it: "Love your neighbour...but Oh Mother!!"  

Answer 22

An Aries wears their heart on their sleeve. While they can appear bad tempered at times they have a good heart and will often recognise they were in the wrong.

Answer 23

well I'm moody like alot of the time n I'm an aries xxxxxx