AS A COSTUMER HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TREATED WITH NO RESPECT or bad attitude?

Question

i feel that i get this allot i don't know if its because im mexican or that i just have bad luck with costumer servise for example is it me or does the workers at macys make up departmen send this im better than you vibe, its kind of intimidating, when i go to a restaurant some times they talk down to me, i also get hit on with really disrespectful comments, when i was pregnant i went to the grocery store and by the time i left the check out i was tired so i desided to leave tomatoes in an emty cart instead of putting it back then i went to pay the rest of my things and the cashier started talking about me to another custemer infront of me saying how lazy i was and he was the one who had to put it back well he dint stop and it got to the point he made me cry, my husband ordered some doors at home depo and when he got them it wasnt what he had asked for, so when he told a worker there to change the order the worker told him " i bet you mi check this is what you asked for" and it wasnt

Answer 1

I'm sorry that you've been treated so poorly in the past.  

but, maybe I'm doing to do it again...  :)

Are you an assertive person?  I would not have taken that grocery clerk's "guff".  I would have asked for a manager.  Not yelling, not cussing -- just calmly ask for the MIC (Manager In Charge).   And explain that you decided not purchase some produce at the check-out counter and was dismayed by the clerk's attitude.  

Don't take it anymore!!!  Say - Excuse me - could you repeat that? -- Arch your eybrows like "I'm sure I misheard you".  I think many workers feel so pushed around in today's jobmarket that they feel entitled to take it out on the customers.  Those workers are under the gun to get everything done now.  And anything you ask for will take them extra time.  So -- they just don't want to do it.  

This is NOT an excuse for their behavior -- just my opinion as to why they act out sometimes.  And, they know who they can be mean to and who they need to kowtow to.  

So - be assertive, sister!!!  Simple, calm and straight forward -- stand up for you and yours!.

Answer 2

happens to me all the time. customer service is not what it should be.some places even act like they're doing you a favor selling it to you.it's not got  anything to do with discriminaton.welcome to america.