Abortion what do you think?

Question

i am reading on here so many young girls getting pregnant cuz they wanted to be adults and have s*x. Well once the BFP comes out then the first thing they do is run and want an abortion. imnot sure if this is cuz they really dont have parents they can talk to about this, or they are uneducated about what to do, or that parents are not looking at what there childern are doing now and days and just looking past everything.

to me abortion is NOT ok. i got pregnant at 15. birth control, condom, and my first time having s*x. i thought i was doing it right but mistakes happen right. my babies dad said he would leave i went to get an abortion at 9 weeks and my baby had nostrols. i couldnt do it. i gave my son up for adoption. the next best thing.

But my big question on this is what do you think. do you think young girls should be able to give up there baby by abotion. or no one should. there are woman that get raped and dont want a baby in the memory. tell me what you think

Answer 1

I agree, if a women gets raped she should have an abortion if she wishes to,but young in mature girls should give their baby's to adoption.They shouldn't even been having s*x at a very young age.

An older man should stop looking for young girls to have s*x with an ruined they lives forever by making them a child..

Abortion for me is murder ! sorry :-{

Answer 2

1st i would like to say well done for going threw with the pregnancy

i totally DO NOT agree with abortions if people are old enough to have s*x well they should be grown up enough to take responsibilty for there baby that THEY made!

but when it comes to rape thats a hard decision but the end of the day in a rape situation its not the babys fault!

im  AGAINST abortions it should not be allowed thats a living little person why should sum1 decide to take away that little babys life!

Answer 3

this is a large can of worms that you are opening. i am pro-life for me and pro-choice for you. i do not wish to take any ones "rights" away, but me personally could never kill my child. i was pregnant at 15 and i kept my child, he is a beautiful 6 year old now.

Abortion is such a touchy subject, i don't think under any circumstances that abortion is okay. not even in rape or incest. if you don't want the child, give that baby to someone who does, someone who doesn't care that that baby came from rape. all that couple cares about is loving that child.

a very close friend of mine has been pregnant twice, she has aborted both of her babies, and it makes me sick. because after my first, now that i'm married my husband and i want more children, but instead of bringing healthy babies in the world, we have had two little girls born still.

i cant stand the thought of someone hurting a baby

Answer 4

You made your choice to give your son up for adoption, and other girls in your situation make other choices.  That's up to them.

EDIT: "Yes it is possible for a 15 year old to get pregnant on birth control and condoms. trust me it hapend to me. so all of you people who are thinking its not true it is. his name is Jame Adam cummins-beckner."

I think that poster was probably doubting your claim  that you were using two forms of birth control, not that you got pregnant at 15.  Do you think your adoptive child's parents appreciate you posting his name on a public internet forum?

Answer 5

i think its fine i dont think it should be like a form of birth control but if u are taking birth control or condoms and something goes wrong its not really like u were being irresponsible so i think its ok but thats my opinion

i want to add an incest baby is going to have alot of medical problems and thats not fair to the baby and its not fair to the mother that is a rape victim to have to let that mans child grow inside her. i also dont think its fair that there are so many people who cant have children and others are popping themout left and right or having abortions. also i think there are too many children in adoption clinics and that really sucks too so to put it up for adoption could also be hurting the child more than its worth. if u never give it a chance to live u never give it a chance to feel pain. if abortions are illegal people will find ways to do it themselves illegally and end up hurting themselves or the baby and not being able to abort it and end up with a messed up baby and health problems themselves. i think it should be left up to the individual and remember this is a free country and you wouldnt want your rights taken away just because someone doesnt agree with you.

Answer 6

In the US it is still perfectly legal for a woman to choose to abort a baby or put it up for adoption.  While we may not all agree on each others' choices, it's not for us to judge each other.  The world would be a much happier place if we all just lived our own lives and left the judging up to God.  

Answer 7

well. it's hard to determine whether it's right or wrong.

women have a choice before get pregnant and after.

as you says you gave up your son for an adoption. how would you feel?

after you carry the baby in your body about 9 month was that easy?

i am sure your heart was broken.. and i am sure still you feel sorry for your son that you can't be there for him.

if you had an abortion. you had just only guilty feeling. but you don't have a memory of the birth and the time that first moment you held him in your arm.

of course if you can prevent the situation it's gonna be perfect. but we all know it won't be perfect in our life the decision you made.

i had an abortion. my husband i got married really young and we are still married 12yrs. when we just got married we couldn't afford the baby. yeah we can go for warfare or WC program but for what?

we know for sure that we can't afford another person. so we didn't have a baby. after 10yrs later. him and i got settled. we had a girl last year.

i am able to stay home with my girl. i can fully focus on my girl instead worry about money and school. for me i think it was better decision not to had a baby when we were young, and giving up for an adoption i do not agree. nothing against you or your past decision. however if you decided to gave birth. why do you want to give up your kid?  i think it'll be better take an abortion. and remember that day and when you have a second chance do  the best you can. that's what i am doing right now.

if they get raped or molested it's gonna be the same thing.

i still believe women have a choice. whether aborted or not.

Answer 8

I've struggled with this for a long time, but a wise woman once told me "the anger stops here!" and that was her answer to the Abortion question, it makes sense.

SO THE ANGER STOPS here.

good luck.

Answer 9

I am pro-choice 100% of the time. I have no right to decide what is right for other people. Roe vs Wade is based on privacy issues, and that's what this is a personal, private issue...I have no right to judge anyone...

Answer 10

Very good question. I think abortion is beyond terrible and I think that they should not be able to decide on that.If they don't want the baby give it up for adoption raped or not it shouldn't even be considered.

Answer 11

abortion is murder i know people who had them just for the sake they were young and werent a family. they now cry and cry over it and how they could have a child. they think abotu how old there child would be and what they would look like its sad and should be illegal unless there is something wrong with pregnancy. i have had to d&c's due to misscarriage and i think about that all the time and i wasnt given a choice but to abort. i now and having my first child due tomrrow and couldnt ask for a better blessing its MURDER. in the being raped situation thats a hard one i wouldnt know till i was put in that position so couldnt give an opinion on that.

Answer 12

I think abortion is a terrible thing, u don't have the right to kill a baby cause u made a bad choice.

Answer 13

Ok... first of all you were on birth control and used a condom ..your FIRST time?? and got pregnant thats a lie there..no need to deny it..thats just impossible!!! and im not believing it...and  if you read statistics ..it shows so many young girls are getting pregnant and HAVING their babies .. a very small percent have an abortion. less sec education is being taught and if your voting or MCCAIN AND PALIN THINK TWICE.... SHE'S AGAINST ABORTION BUTTTTT  PALIN OPPOSED TO GIVING MONEY TO s*x EDUCATION !!!!! SHE SAYS ABSENESE SHOUDL BE TAUGHT!! WHAT A DUMBA$$ HUH??? AND HER 17 YEAR OLD IS PREGNANT WOW YEAH KIDS WILL LISTENG TO DON'T HAVE S3X !! THIS IS WHY SO MANY GIRLS ARE GETTING PREGNANT !

Answer 14

i am all for abortion as early as possible not the tri mester though when the baby is fully developed. I find it hard to believe that with birth control, a condo, and first time s*x you miraculously got pregnant

safe s*x education needs to be instructed in HIgh school with an emphasis on ABSTINENCE and more importantly PARENTS need to do their job and teach their kids the consequences pregnancy can have on your entire life.

i dont think abortion should be illegal- or should be a political issue- the woman needs to have that option

there are countless stories that teenagers who get pregnant and dont have a strong support structure have to drop out of high school and work at mcdonalds full time to supoort themselves. well that womans life is ruined- dont have s*x until your an adult and let the abortion option always be available  

EDIT: adoption is an honorable thing to do, but if I were a woman, and gave my baby up to adoption, then every moment i would be thinking what if i kept her/him, or wha they are doing right now and if they are alright, i probably would have had an early abortion

Birth Control is 99.99% effective so obviously you should have read the directions on how to use it properly. 15 is toooo young for s*x. geez these kids start earlier and earlier its scary. im 25 and surprised that they start having s*x younger and younger. Parents really need to step up and raise their children correctly and be in their lives- thats what it boils down to

Young kids and young adults shouldnt be worrying about getting there groove on- they should be focused on college and finding a good career to advance their life and once you have means to support yourself, not counting flipping burgers jobs, then be responsible and have a kid.

Answer 15

Abortion....this is a very big thing especially for teenage girls.....I got pregnant when I was 18 and i took an abortion because I figured I wasn't ready to have a child, it came on me so fast.....It was a very traumatic experience  and it really affected me mentally for a couple months....it still do now but not as much as before.....I really regretted having that abortion and i felt that the only way to justified what I did was to get pregnant again...I am now 19 and and i just found out two days ago that i was pregnant....I am still questioning if i might be a good parent, if I am ready to take this big step, but i know that I am ready and willing to make necessary changes to be a good mother to my unborn child. I know that I do not want to take an abortion again because I don't know what kind effects there might be after and i know i definitely don't want to go through what i went through before. If you are pregnant and you are thinking about having an abortion...I am advising you to think it over, and make sure you are very comfortable with whatever decision you decide to make...because whatever you choose there is no turning back.