About Adoption?????

Question

I'm not tring to offened anybody..... just if you can have kids on your own do you love them just as much?

I'm not adopted just a courious person....

Answer 1

I'm adopted and my mom gave birth to my brother, the answer is everybody is different. My mother never treated us differently and I never felt different. If I had to say, I'm a little bit more spoiled than my brother.

Answer 2

well my child was put up for adoption 23 yrs ago and l still do not know where he is. but adoption is a very painful experience.

Answer 3

There is a couple from my church that I am very good friends with.  They have two wonderful boys!  But they chose to adopt a baby girl.  I can tell your from seeing them with her that they love her just as much as their boys!  And if they wanted they could have more children on their own.  

By the way...its not a bad question.

Answer 4

I WAS ADOPTED AND I HAVE A GREAT MOTHER. SHE HAD A CHILD 45 YRS AGO.AND I'M 40. THEIR ARE PEOPLE OUT THEIR THAT HAVE KIDS ON THEIR OWN AND AND THEY FEEL LIKE THEY STEEL HAVE LOVE FOR MORE CHILDREN AND ADOPTED MORE. I HAVE A FRIEND AND SHE HAS 3 GROWN BOYS AND SHE FELT THAT SHE HAVE MORE ROOM IN HER HEART AND SHE ADOPTED 4 MORE CHILD.ITS NOT JUST FOR PEOPLE THAT CAN NOT HAVE KIDS.ITS FOR PEOPLE THAT HAS ALOT OF LOVE FOR KIDS. IT TAKES LOVE TO TAKE CHILDREN AT ARE UNWANTED AND GIVE THEM A PLACE TO CAN THEIR ONLY. THEIR ARE PEOPLE THAT ARE JUST OUT TO GET PAYED FOR CARING FOR KIDS,BUT THEIR ARE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT WANT TO MAKE A DIFFENTS IN THIS WORLD....

Answer 5

A child that is yours biologically will have a different bond with you then a child that was adopted, but I think whether your children are adopted or biological you love them all just the same. Your children are your children. They all have a special spot in your heart.

Answer 6

I'm not sure what you're asking, but I have five children. Two biological twins and three adopted ones.

I love them all equally and they mean the world to me.

Answer 7

I think a little person is wonderful whether baby/child is given life by you or someone else.  It doesn't matter.  You look in their little eyes and just love them.

Answer 8

Yes.. My sis and friends have adopted, and the love that is there is awesome!

Answer 9

I was adopted by wonderful parents, and I have a sister, I never felt any less loved than her so I would have to say yes a persons capacity to love is endless.

Answer 10

I have three children 2 biological and 1 adopted.  I do love them all the same.  However it did take longer with the one I adopted because we had to have more time to bond.  With my other two I held them the day they were born and it was an instant thing had 9 months to think about and feel my kids I gave birth to.  We got our adopted son when he was 7 months so it took time to bond and connect with him.  We have know had him in our family for a year and a half and he is just like the other two.  It is as if he has always been here!

Answer 11

I am unable to carry a child, but I can tell you this. The MOMENT I picked up my daughter for the first time, it was as if she came from my womb. I love her as if she were my biological child, and would give my life for her.  I have read articles throughout my adoption journey where parents say that they love both biological and adopted children the same, however, the nuturing is a little different for both as the adopted child may have a greater emotional need/support system than the biological.

In any case, what is important here is to be the best Parent you can be, biological or not.