About adultery in the Philippines?

Question

I've met a woman in PI. She was raped by a man and became pregnant. She had his son and later married him to legitimize her son. He left her almost 7 years ago to go live with another woman. He never helped her in anyway at all. He just abandoned her and his son. Now he wants to remarry but since he's heard of me he wants me to pay for the annulment! I want to go visit her but she's been told he intends to hire someone to take pictures of us together and present them to the court. I don't want her or me either for that matter to get arrested for adultery! The situation seems so un-fair but I guess I shouldn't expect justice anywhere in this world. By what I've learned I better not go see her, help her and her son, but this just seems so un-fair, especially to her. I've told her I will come be with her but how can I if I know she could get in trouble?

Any Advise?

Thanks!

Ken

Answer 1

Just be careful. Most of these women see you as nothing money. It's a survival game out there. They will however, be your personal slave by cooking for you, taking care of you, etc. Try to find another woman where love will take less risks. Trust me, they can get you good over there. The Roman Catholic Church rules over the nation's laws and regulations. Adultery is a crime there as annulments are difficult to get. Are you planning to taking her to another country? If so be very careful because once she becomes a citizen, there are chances she may leave you.

Answer 2

Unfortunately Adultery is a crime in the Philippines, and yes you and she could be arrested and go to jail if the husband complains. There is no divorce here and the only way out of marriage here is by annulment.

Annulments cost anywhere between P 100,000 and P200,000 depending on what kind of deal your lawyer works out. It also usually takes roughly one year.

Since you are a "rich foreigner" you will be expected to pay for it and don't be surprised if the husband asks for a settlement in cash.

Yes it is very unfair, especially since her no good pos husband ran out on her years ago. But an annulment presents an opportunity for the husband to extort money from the "rich foreigner".

Advice ? There are many single women here. Messing around with a married one will only bring you grief and problems.

Answer 3

Dude, you are being scammed, dump her like a warm beer.

Answer 4

It sounds like you are in the middle of a big con game.

If you really want a mail order bride choose another one.

My dad did & they have been together for 20+ years.

You are being conned.