About american women behavior?

Question

I have a relationship with a nice american woman , she has 23 y.o. and she lives in the midwest in US. We are in my country right now, and I think she is different when she comes to southamerica. I think she has another behave in her own country.

Answer 1

Maybe she's trying to fit in with your country. There are some things that she can do in America that aren't acceptable in other parts.

I don't act the same when  I go to India, b/c my relatives would have a heart attack.

Answer 2

I am hispanic and born in the US, but knowing that she is from the US (don't know her ethnicity), and knowing you are from SA, means that your culture is more open to relationships where you show more affection, and everyone has a strong bond with each other.  You have to respect her culture and ways, and she will learn to accept and respect yours.

Answer 3

thats not true ,I married a Mexican American and his family lives in Mexico ,and I act the same just as if I was here back in the usa when I visit them

Answer 4

maybe she is not used to the atmosphere or condition...

Answer 5

So if it's not a real relationship why are you worried about the way she acts? Latino men are always so quick to criticize American women but they don't seem to mind the way they act when they are sticking their salchichas in them......

Answer 6

We don't know her, so we can't make any kind of judgment on her.  If you think she acts differently in your country, maybe it's because she's not totally comfortable there.  That would make anyone act different.

Answer 7

Yeah people act deferently depending on where they are

Answer 8

What makes you assume that she's not the same person on vacation that she is while the two of you are back home in the U.S? Could it be that you change when the two of you go on vacation in South America. Wanting her to be more like the women of your homeland and she rejects it. Could it be that you're trying to force her to become a person that she's not  comfortable with being? Sometimes the root of the problems we have in relationships can be found by simply viewing the reflection in a mirror.

If her attitude changes with your current location, then seek to ask her why she changes? Sit down and talk with her and try to gage her comfort level with her surroundings prior to making the assumption that she's fake. Because it may be that she's not used to traveling out side of her comfort zone. She may not be willing to go to a foreign country with out her family and friends from back home. Make sure it's not you before you point the finger.