About an ex boyfriend who is soon to go to uni? thanks you!

Question

Right basically, i was going out with a lovely guy round christmas til after valantines day so it didnt last very long because i was having problems with an ex he was unaware of.

anyways, a few months ago, i got back in touch and old him the truth of why i went so quiet and we became good friends again. i began dating my now boyfriend and things were nice. i was reguarly chatting with my ex and my boyfriend was cool about it as he liked him.

recently, my boyfriend became very quiet and i am still unsure of why this is, but he knows i am here for him and im keeping an eye on him as i know he has suffered depression in the past.

howeveer, last week my ex came over to hang out etc and he announced 'he didnt want us to get back together' which i knew and neither do i, but then we kissed.

i love my boyfriend and i think he knows what happend, but is ok with it because he knows things have been hard for both of us lately. that doesnt mean what i did was right i know.

my ex then went very quiet. he had left his keys at my house but keeps putting off coming and getting them. he wont talk to me. i dont understand what is wrong. the problem is, i know when he comes over it will be the last time i see him as he is to go to uni so it would be upsetting. i wont ever see him again and we do have a bond and friends.

so....do i persist on seeing him to give him his keys or send them with a goodbye letter?

thank you i just dont know.

xx

Answer 1

Try going to his house unexpectedly handing over the keys and saying good bye, at least you would get to see him for the last time in a while, and your boyfriend may get jealous if you keep nagging your ex to meet up to give the keys back.  :)

Answer 2

I feel so sorry for your boyfriend, no ones life is perfect and people are going to go threw hard times but there is never any reason to cheat! You friend knew you had a boyfriend and he totally crossed the line, post his keys back with a letter saying you are sorry about what happened and you should just leave it at that, as we go threw are lives we meet so many different people some people stay with us a short time some a long time, I think it is time to let this friendship take a natural end, it doesn't mean you can't meet up now and again when he comes home from uni in the holidays but just don't let it get so full on.

Next I think you need to have a good talk with your boyfriend, I seriously don't believe he is happy with you kissing another guy, talk to him and let him know how much he means to you etc. You are very Lucky to have him.

Good Luck xxxxx  

Answer 3

I think your ex-boyfriend still has that feeling for you and I thikn he still likes you.  The depression is catching him and trying to get adjusted to it.