About four years I hit my niece because she spilled some nail varnish.."

Question

I slapped her so hard it could be heard downstairs, I still feel so guilty, I told my sister what I had done, and she said "don't worry, I know you didn't mean it", however, I still feel so guilty.

Answer 1

I hit my dog hard once. I have always felt guilty about that because she is permanently afraid of me now, even though I always try to show her I am sorry for it. I have also done bad things to humans. (None of which I am willing to speak about.)

The best thing you can do is admit what you did was wrong and let others know you know it was wrong. The guilt will never go away but as time goes on it is easier to forget about it, at times.

Answer 2

forget about it & do a new starting with her

Answer 3

We all slip and hit people when we're totally enraged... but if you hit her over some spilled nail varnish... I think you should research ways to deal with anger. That's not something to hit someone over, young or old. Talk to your niece, and simply tell her you were wrong, you hit her because you were angry, and will NEVER, EVER do it again. It might take some time for her to forget what you did to her, but it'll be better than letting it stew.

Answer 4

some one should slap the you no what outta you

Answer 5

oh my gosh your sister is rude you should never get away with hitting a child that's great you still feel guilty you should and your sister should feel guilty to