About friends with Benefits...?

Question

Say you dated someone you are living with but are just friends now. How do you go about trying to make it friends with benefits? How can you bring it up or should you just wait until a moment arises to make a move sexually and then somehow slip in a conversation about friends with benefits? also you never will date again but are very good friends due to a majority of common interests; if one of you has feelings for the other but the other may not know it would it be a good idea to have one of your own friends over privately to sleep with them even if the other person knows that you're sleeping with them or is that rude and disrespectful because there is that possibility that one of you has feelings for the other?

Answer 1

My opinion is, to try and make a move.  Obviously, they were attracted to you, if you dated once before.  They probably still want it to, secretly, but they don't want to make the 1st move.  I miss my good old days, when I knew someone in the next room could hear.  It made it more exciting.  Nowadays, I have to make sure the kids can't hear. LOL Good luck!

Answer 2

When you have friends with benefits there always that possibility of getting back together, because its almost like going out but your just banging. So one or the other could become jealous or even feel used.  

Answer 3

Rule #1 men cant be friends with women...they always want "benefits".

Rule #2 women are stupid enough to think men don't want 'benefits" and to be just friends.....LOL.

Answer 4

im sorry but im a litt confused about this :/

Answer 5

I wouldn't try to have FWB with someone you are living with. it would get too complicated. if you want to sleep with someone else, then let you roommate know it, ask her if it will bother her or make her uncomfortable and then go from there.  

Answer 6

get drunk

Answer 7

Go to a club, and bring it up there

Answer 8

You have to be joking.  

Answer 9

Pay attention to what im saying, its important

Friends With Benifits (FWB) is something that is kept secret becuse people miht get jealous or other people might not want to date you.

To get a girl to become friends with benifits is easy.

If your old enough then go get her drunk and make it seem like yall like each other, have s*x and wake up like you didnt know and just talk about ti and say lets be FWB

I tried t and it was fun but u have to talk a certain way

And u can make her feel specail and one day wen ur just talking just get her alone wen its just u and her and ask her if she ever had one and ask her y and ask would she ever want one. Then ask if she wanted to try it out with u and make it seem inoccent and tell her its jsut fun and tying stuff out so wen she ahs a bf she can be a expert on it.lol

im use to FWB cuz i went a whole year wih them

I had about 30 so far but i dont like to brag.