About join bank card?

Question

My husband and I got fight over the bank card.

He didn't even wanna give me join bank card. I don't waste money at all. he wanted to me to handle the money issue. bet he has never let me do this. one day he came up to me and gave me the bank card. but these was his mother's name on the bank card.not may name. even not his name...

Is this normal?

Answer 1

no this is not normal.  a joint card has both your name on one card and his on the other.  both of you have to sign for a card also.

He has his mother on the card to protect her if he is to die, or if he gets hurt.  It should be you or he should marry his mother and not you.

marriage is all about trust and working together, not behind each others backs and keeping one in the dark about you family money and business and bills.