About masturbation ?

Question

alot i see in different places that a man m********e and then clean with tissues, i dont understand it i just "finish" on some peaces of toilet paper so its not messy.

the question is how is the best way to do it cos i cant leave stains that my parents can see it will be a little :p so like do it on a bed and then clean with tissues or the way i do it?

Answer 1

Well not to judge you but masturbation can be a bad habit to break..If it is done regularly it can be habitual and can lead to other things. Also as a young person you are bound to get these urges and feelings but some things that can help is: not watching p**n, sexually explicit movies, listening to extremely sexual lyrics in music and avoid clothing that can rub to close to genitalia. Along with masturbation can sometimes come with a measure of guilt because it is unnatural. Because the practice is one “contrary to nature,” the masturbator pays a mental penalty. The habitual practice cripples his social and emotional development, hinders his attaining a healthful outlook and attitude toward the other s*x and toward people in general. It can ‘turn the person inward’ upon himself, making him introverted. Or it can, and frequently does, lead into homosexuality, in which the person, not satisfied with his lonely sexual activity, seeks a partner for mutual s*x play. Though speaking of the ‘normality’ of masturbation, medical and psychiatric authorities are obliged to recognize the frequency with which habitual masturbation becomes a real hindrance to a happy and contented marriage later in life. The facts show that it is not uncommon for the practice to persist after marriage to the point where the masturbator feels obliged to seek psychiatric help.

So try the suggestions and get back to me and see if it helps...Hope everything works out.

Answer 2

d**n... the LADY 4 ways up sounds like a big pile of p**p... or like one of the freaks from Focus on the Family... she seems to imply that masturbation makes one g*y (the things they find to blame, who knows what next they're gonna come up with)... I was as g*y as they come way before I discovered I could play with my p-p and jizzm, and that counts as 1 among however countless others. "Maam, what do you have against one of your exes? Or are you one of those crazies who have helped to SUPPRESS female sexuality for way too long?" Aaam, that chile needs a d***o!

Anyway dear, masturbating is a d**n good way to learn about yourself so that you can know your "sexology" (how your body functions during intercourse). It's no use finding out many things when the table is spread and your partner is laid before you... plus you will have a better idea what touches enhance your experience... and if you happen to be g*y then at least you will also know how to reciprocate for your partner. You might even want to practice how to put on a condom too... it can be a bit embarrassing if it takes forever. And it's a cleaner way to go too, as long as you remember to flush them away before momma gets by. You can probably get them from big store where nobody's bound to know who you are, or a free clinic or school health center or something.

Trust me... every time you jerk it is a chance to learn something new about yourself and confidence is certainly not the same as introversion. Confidence BOOSTS the experience that your partner has when you do do it with someone. Makes me wonder if that fella few comments up is a high class masturbater ... she seems awfully confident the way she poses her bs.

Answer 3

The guy above should be quiet lol, as he is talking absolute BS, its perfectly healthy, and every normal man does it lol, there's nothing wrong with it, as long as you don't do it like 17 times a day lol. But according to him, 90% of men are all doomed to homosexuality and "inwards" attitudes lol

If anything, it helps to prepare for when you do have s*x, as your likely to last longer, and you will know kinda what to expect lol

So it doesn't make you g*y or weird , that's a load of rubbish lol - so  don't stop on account of him lol

Answer 4

just do it then wipe it up with a wash cloth or something or just do it on ur old clothes and wash them urself

Answer 5

What ever works best for you is fine.

When I am masturbating and am ready to *** I put a couple of Kleenex on my stomach and the sperm usually winds up on them and it is done. That is just me, I don't like having to wipe the sperm up off my stomach.

Answer 6

The reason most men clean up after is because they prefer just to ejaculate on themselves, then clean up rather than shoot into a tissue. It's really up to you. Either way, your parents won't know unless you tell them or leave evidence somewhere. Hope this helps.

Answer 7

Do it in the shower or into the toilet...

Answer 8

If you're not having problems with the way you're doing it, then there's no need to change.  There's no real "right" or "wrong" way to clean up. It sounds like you already have this under control.  What you're doing is fine.

Answer 9

Best thing is to get the tissue or paper towel, and when you're about to shoot, wrap it around the end of your p***s and shoot into that.  Then, all you have to do is throw the tissue or paper towel into the garbage.  Another way, if you can do it, is if you're naked, then just lay back in bed and shoot over your stomach and chest.  That's pretty easy to wipe up with a damp facecloth.  Otherwise, do like one of the other guys said and do it in the shower.

Answer 10

You're supposed to *** INTO the tissue, bro. XD

Or a sock.