About men always having to pay on dates. Yes or no answers only please.?

Question

1) Should a man pay when a girl asks him out.

2) Is a girl being deceitful if she reaches for the bill but doesn't intend to pay?

3) Does a girl have the right to call a guy cheap if he doesn't always pay, but she never pays.

4) Does a girl have more value than a guy?

5) Should a girl consider the guys feelings as much as he considers hers?

6) Should a relationship between a man and woman be on equal terms (including financially).

7) If a girl says she's old fashioned and wants the guy to always pay, is it ok for the guy to expect her to cook and clean for him?

Just yes or no answers, I'm just curious about the popular opinion on these questions.

Answer 1

1.No.

2.Yes.

3.?? (then who paid?)

4.No.

5.Yes.

6. That depends on if they're both working. Yes, if they are.

7. Yes, he can expect that, but she may not do it!

You didn't ask, but if a guy asks a girl out, (typical way) he should definitely pay.

Answer 2

1. No

2. Yes

3. No

4. No

5. Yes

6. Yes

7. Yes

Answer 3

No.No.No.No.Yes.Yes.No

Answer 4

1. No

2. Yes

3. No

4.No

5. Yes

6.Yes

7. Yes

Answer 5

1) No.

2) Yes.

3) no.

4) no.

5) yes.

6) yes.

7) yes.

Answer 6

no

no, just playful

yes

yes

equal

no, man should be able to support, woman can choose to work

yes

Answer 7

1. yes

2. no

3. no

4. no

5. yes

6. yes

7. yes

Answer 8

1  no way

2  naaa

3  noooo

4  depends

5  yupp

6  pretty much

7  sure is

sorry mine aren't yes or no answers but they are correct answers

xxxxx

Answer 9

1 No

2 Yes

3 No

4 No

5 Yes

6 Yes

7 No

Answer 10

My sisters boyfriend at the time made my sister pay for everything.  My sister didn't even have a job at the.  My sister finally spoke to him about being a man & paying for things.

Now, they compromise on small things.

Answer 11

1. No.  They can co dutch treat or she can insist on paying.

2. No.  Just snooping.

3. No.

4. no.  They have the same amount of value.

5. yes

6. yes, except for finances

7. no.  It might mean that she just believes that the boy should pay for dates.

Answer 12

no

yes

no

no

yes

yes

yes

Answer 13

1) No

2) Yes

3) No

4) Yes

5) Yes

6) Yes

7) Yes

Answer 14

1) Yes.

2) Nope...Just Nosy.  She need not touch it if she ain't gonna pay.

3) Yes.

4) Actually, yes...she's more fragile.

5) h**l yes.

6) Definitely.

7) LOL!  If she's old fashioned, then h**l Yes!

Answer 15

1) Yes. Men should always pay........ Unless she insists..... As much as women want equal rights, we must know the whole point of all that they have done is to make all aspects of life favorable for them :P

2) No.

3) He shouldn't be with a girl that calls him cheap.

4) We are equal.

5) Yes.

6) Not always, depends if that is what you both want.

7) No, every decision should be mutual decision between both parties.

Answer 16

1] no

2] yes

3] no

4] nope. [well depends if the guys a jerk]

5] yes. always

6]  well, yes not one person should pay ALL the bills

7] mm. sure y not? thats a double edge sword sweetie

^_^

its not fair to always ask a guy to pay. and it is fair to ask us to always clean then. these are M-O-D-E-R-N days and any girl who expects a guy to buy her everything and calls it being "old fashioned" is a gold digger.

--jazzie

Answer 17

The Dating Game rules come from the idea that a man is supposed to court a woman.  So in the beginning - the getting to know you stage of the game - you should assume you are the man.  At some point you're relationship will move to the steady friendship phase - at which time the "chase" is more relaxed.

So....

1. Yes

2. No

3. No...but that surely must be the end of relationship

4. No...2 people playing the get-to-know-you game

5. Yes

6. If you are dating the girl, you need to pay...if you are out as friends then you don't...so No

7.  I assume she'd also want you to pay for a maid.

In the beginning men pay...but at some point it changes.  If she's still saying pay, pay, pay - then she is a high maintenance princess and you need to decide if that's OK or not.

Answer 18

1) Yes, it's just manners. If I asked a guy out to dinner, I would pay as well, even if he insisted.

2) Yes.

3) Yes.

4) No. I wouldn't say more value, just how to approach and respect her is different from how to approach and respect a guy.

5) Yes, obviously

6) Yes, as much as possible

7) No

Answer 19

In  new relationship the guy should pay simply because its custom and he will look like a freeloading bum otherwise.  

Once the relationship has grown and the two people are comfortable with eachother, then whoever is financially more able should pay.  But of course, in a good relationship, this would be figured out long before sitting down to eat.

If a guy doesn't always pay and the girl never pays, who pays? Grandma?  No, the girl has nothing to say about his spending if she's never so much as forked over a dime (after though, some time into the relationship).

That's a dumb question.  Who makes value? In what situation?

Everyone who's decent and mature considers other people's feelings, no matter how close they are too them.

Yes, a healthy relationship is one in which power is shared, not monopolized.

No, he doesn't get a personal maid for the price of a meal.   In the old days a man had to marry a woman to get her to be his personal maid for life, now they want one for a couple of dinners out? Boy, things change!

What he does get though is the right to tell her that she doesn't seem that old fashioned or she'd be at home cooking dinner, darning the socks and speaking only when spoken to.  

Your a modern guy who'd like a modern girl, period.  She can keep looking.

Answer 20

1). mehh... yes

2). yes

3). no

4). no

5). yes

6). no

7). no

Answer 21

1=split cost

2=who's to know

3=no

4=equal

5=equal

6=yes

7=yes

Answer 22

1. no.

2. yeah.

3. no.

4. no.

5. yeah!

6. yeah

7. yeah.

i'm a really old fashioned person in most ways, but i hate when my bf tries to pay... it feels sooo off balance.

Answer 23

1. No

2. Yes

3. No

4. No

5. Yes

6. Yes

7. No