Abuse. what can i do to help my friend. she is abused verbally, physically, and mentally.?

Question

My friend lives with a guy who is her room mate. She gets slapped and hit constantly, i am all she has. She doesnt have any monet because her roommate keeps stealing her money and debit card. what should she do. she has no money and no other place to go. please help i am scared for her. Also she is pregnant so that doesnt help.

Answer 1

call the local police 1.

2. does she want out

there are battered womens shelters all over check for hot lines in the phone book she needs out but getting her to leave i another issue ask police for # to call pick her up to go out when you get her to your house start calling the hot lines see if they will talk to her the police should if you feel he will not let her leave go and retrieve her things with  her you may have to insist the police go with you and her but it is thier job

Answer 2

Hun, I now live with my aunt and uncle because i was physically abused. sexually, mentally AND verbally. Yeah it sucks. And its scary and makes you feel like your under control ALL the time. I was little when it happend. And i could not protect myselfe. You need to be strong for her. You need to ALWAYS be there for her. I would have loved for my mom to be sober and be here for me. You know about this. Just make sure you have evidence!!! Then report him. Let her live with you till she gets back on her feet.

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Much luck!!  

Answer 3

Report the guy and her roommates 2 the police and let her stay with  you until she earns enough money to rent an apartment

Answer 4

Report her room mate. That is horrible for the baby (I would think)  

Answer 5

First the cops need to be called. If it is not hapenning right at tthis moment then an abuse hotline. She needs to get in there when he's not around and pack her stuff. Then call the bank and shut down that checking account period and any other accounts that maybe linked to that account. She can re-open one when she has some cash saved up.

Answer 6

well...umm if u live sumwere help her and let her live with u.yll she gets her life straight its good that she has a friend like u 2 help.and she can report to sumone bout her abuse or u should cuz dont let ur friend get hurt anymore.hope i helped:).

Answer 7

She needs to go. Now. There are places all over for battered women. She needs to find one of those places.  

Answer 8

Have her move in with you and go to the authorities. Your her friend, you really need to do something.

Answer 9

report the guy and let her live with you

Answer 10

tell her to move out! as soon as possible!

maybe she can move back in with her family or maybe even you. that's awful that that's happening to her!

Answer 11

Can you let her live with you?

She needs out from that situation, and fast, and help to make sure that she doesn't get into a similar relationship

Answer 12

Call the police and she can go to a woman's shelter.  

Answer 13

I'd call the local domestic hot-line and report it . It's anonymous and she'll get help.

Answer 14

umm there are places where people that are being beaten like her can go. after shes der 4 a while have her come live wit. just do somethin fast. situations like that are not good....especially for her future baby