Acting this way? anti-social, dating (pic)?

Question

i only like being anti social on weekeds...lol

here

On the weekdays, I have a ton of people to talk to, I'm social at school and talkative, I join a bunch of clubs and I'm in a sport(track & Field). Also i'm happy with my looks.

http://s157.photobucket.com/albums/t46/butt_rex/?action=view&current=DSC01814.jpg

But on the weekends I feel so different. Alot of my friends suggest I should come over their house and hang out and ect. It feels like such a burden. Like for example yesterday my friend asked me to go to the movies and mall with him today, I really don't want though. I just hate planning things out with my friends...cause it somehow will mess up. (he had to cancel anyway)

also "dating"....I have been dating for 3 month....cause it feels like a burden too.(flirting, going to places, spending money, talking with her)

The things i do most in the weekend is: computer, hang with family, workout (ALOT), eat, watch tv, homework, and sleep.

Is this a bad thing?

Has this happen to people?

http://s157.photobucket.com/albums/t46/butt_rex/?action=view&current=DSC01814.jpg

Answer 1

um just try being yourself on the weekend and if you can't them just fake it because that way you can do fun things with your Friends and by the time you get there you will want to do it!!!

Answer 2

iits good that you are confident in your looks and i think you should be. your not bad looking at all. i dont think its a bad thing. but you need to be one person. right now it seems like you are confused and trying to be the real thing that you are and then something  you are not. which is really hard. so you need to hang out with your freinds on the weekends and have fun with them. and then whoever you say you are "dating" then you need to hang out with her too and just have fun. your question was kinda confusing and i hope this hellped! good lukc!!

answer mine please!!

Answer 3

hormones

Answer 4

Yeah I tend to be the same way sometimes. When i was dating I would sometimes "get sick" and i wasnt trying to be mean I just got really nervous or felt like I would be expected to put on a show. I cant explain it I just feel so much more free when I am not in a relationship, but then i feel lonely when I am not in one. Lol I am just messed up...

Answer 5

oh thats completely normal! you just need your alone time every once in a while to focus on yourself and not have to worry about "omg shes gonna get mad cuz its been 4 hours since we talked" or "omg i need 20 bucks for the movie but i need to save up for a ___", you know, that type of stuff. try balancing it out, like have quieter week days so you still have some socialization left for at least one day of the weekend.

Answer 6

Haha im just the same :) Only one friend i actually enjoy being with outside school. Having a bf was indeed a burdon because he was clingy and UGHH i couldnt do it xD I guess i like my weekends to myself, and use MSN for socialising. When its summer i force myself out with my friends, i do enjoy it when im there but before i go out i cant be bothered unless its with the friend that makes me laugh and actually has same personality as me. Maybe you just dont like going out with your friends because theyre a bit different to you. Movie and the Mall not your thing? If your friends suggested you go running together or something else you enjoy you might be more willing to go out.  As for dating, if you found someone you truly clicked with she wouldnt feel like a burdon to you. Because youd want to do the same things and wouldnt mind doing them together :)  

Answer 7

glad you're happy with your looks there guy.  

Answer 8

very bad ... you have 2 personalities