Acting weird about certain things?

Question

I don't really like talking to people on the phone, even if it's to my family or people I know really well. The other day I had to call my mum from my friends house to pick me up, and I was really stressing about it, even though now I know it's not a big deal (though next time I'll probably do the same thing)

I don't mind texting people. But on MSN I only like talking to these 2 people, even though I have other contacts I'm better friends with than them. When someone starts a convo on there with me I get really nervous, even if it's with a long-time friend.

I don't really mind what people think about me. I mean, if I'm doing something that I would normally do and that I like and someone comments negatively about it, then I don't really care. But when I make a mistake, even a tiny one (like pronouncing someones name wrong) I obsess about it for a long time and can't get it off my mind and blow it way out of proportion.

I'm sure I'm doing similar things to those as well.

Basically, how can I be more 'normal' about things like that?

Answer 1

I dunno, that's weird, you think that ppl may judge you when u're talking to them so u dont feel comfortable talking to them, it's normal with your brothers,, but go and have a talk with them, maybe play a PS2 game or go to the mall, umm tell them that u miss them!

You're nervous when u're around ppl, talk to ur mom and dad maybe, to help u figure out that prob. I think they may help, u're just not a social person, it's ok, i think u'll snap out of it sooner or later!!

Good luck!

Answer 2

I think you need to talk to a professional counselor about this.  You are having feelings and acting out in a certain way that may indicate deeper problems.  If you can find someone who you can open up to and explain your feelings.