Addiction to pornography?!?

Question

I really am trying to stop watching p**n and I have to fight my urge. I pray to god for him to help me and he has but when a sexual urge comes on I cant help it. I'm only 15 and I don't want my life to be full of deception of my parents. I want to live a normal life without having to worry or even think about that. Please help me thank you. Any website that would help would be great and I cant have counseling cause I'm only 15 and my parents wouldn't understand if I told them there very strict Christian parents. Thank you so much

Answer 1

Sorry, I really can't help but to laugh at your question. Fifteen and watching p**n already? Really? I don't know anybody that does. But hey, I'm a fifteen year old girl so it's totally different.

Anyways, try doing something else, like listen to music, read a book, hang out friends. Just ignore your "sexual urge". And perhaps try making a promise to God that  you will not watch any p**n for like one week. And when that one week is over make another promise that you won't watch p**n for two weeks. Keep going with that. And YOU can control your urge. You're just lazy. Like if girls keep their virginity until marriage, guys can too. So stay stronger than that and have more belief in God.

Good Luck..

Ha ha.

Answer 2

I'm 15 and I was addicted to p**n for a while. The best thing to do is to say "no more p**n" and just use mental stimulation if you want to m********e. p**n addictions usually come from  a lack of other things to do. Try getting a non-p**n related hobby such as video games or model building. I like playing golf. Don't worry, p**n isn't healthy in teenage years, makes you think of girls as not much more than s*x toys. You can come through, don't worry, you'll be fine.

forgot to say, if you can get through the first two days of not watching p**n, you'll be fine.

Answer 3

I think you are normal, and probably paranoid because of your parents Christian values.

Answer 4

How to avoid p**n addiction on the Internet

1. Consider installing p**n content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog ,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.

2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a p**n site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov

3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.

4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.

5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.

6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.

Stick with reputable sites.

If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.

Internet p**n Filter Software Resource : http://www.netdogsoft.com

Answer 5

Haha, its normal for a 15 year old. But if its like 2 hours a day, you should be worried. Maybe try masturbating just using mental images?

Heres a website to help you stop, thats if your not over exaggerating.

http://www.no-p**n.com/

Answer 6

When you say you are addicted to p**n are you only watching it to m********e?  That's normal having visual stimulation helps you to relieve yourself faster.  But if it is affecting you in other ways then I would say keep praying and you should be fine.

Answer 7

Pornography addiction can be very serious. Many everyday people have lost jobs, homes, family, friends, and loved ones simply because they could not beat thier pornography habit. I recommend you seek some help. I found a site that has addiction information and a directory of addiction treatment centers so you can help. http://www.addictionselfhelp.com



Live strong

Answer 8

First of all, let me tell you, you are by a landslide, not the only one!!

At 15, you are so very normal, my dear. Exploring your feelings and curiosity won`t make you have an un-normal life.

It has nothing to do with your parents. You don`t need to tell them, this is a private thing. It`s no deception.

If I think back to when I was a teen-ager, there were lots of things I looked at, or did that were a normal part of growing up, but would never in a million years tell anyone about them. So has everyone else in the world!

Don`t worry, you`re fine! Hugs!