Adolescent questions..lots of them.!

Question

ok..im 16 years old..never had s*x before..my boyfriend's totally comfortable with the fact that im not ready for s*x yet...whenever we kiss,his hands go inside my pants from the back side or underneath my bra....yesterday,on our way back from school..i was wearing this really short skirt and when we started kissing behind this buliding,his hands just went underneath my skirt n started pullin the elastic of my panties..n feeling inside my panties......I EXTREMELY ENJOYED IT...will he do the same thing again whenever we kiss???..if he does so again,how do i react??am i supposed to do anything back???..i just smiled a cute smile this time...is it weird of me to actually feel good about it??...is this what you call an o****m??..is he trying to tell me that he wants to have s*x soon???..

Answer 1

well if you dont want to then dont have s*x. okay first question....he might do the same thing over again it depends on how he is feeling or how you react to it....next....just go along with it if you want to moan or something do it...kiss him...put your hands on his waste or up under is shirt or right under his pants like on the sides.....next....no its not weird of you to feel good about it, thats why people do it, its a very sexual thing and its suposed to feel good as long as you are doing it with the right person....no that is no where near and orgasim, one would fell like ...well your knees kinda go weak, your heart will pound, it might tingle, ur body will feel it ull know but this wasnt one, and he might be telling you that he wants to have s*x but dont if you dont want to and if you do, make him work for it dont give it up to him that fast.

Answer 2

its ok that u enjoyed it, but be careful. he may try to go further next time! react how ur gut tells u to. but be ready for anything. hopefully u know him well enough that u know he wont try to hurt u if u stop him from going too far. if i were u, id carry around something u can defend yourself with. cuz this boy seems to be getting closer and closer to crossing the line and i think his acceptance of your abstinence is starting to wear off. stop him now before its too late, unless u want to do it. if ure ready, i guess go ahead. but if ure emotionally, mentally, physically or in any way not ready, don't do it!    make sure ure sure about the situation, keep things under control as much as possible and hopefully u should be fine! be careful and good luck!

Answer 3

thats normal

its called fingering!

but just wait for s*x...

Answer 4

Wow, you're right, a lot of questions...

Answer 5

Will he do it again?: If you let him once he may do it again.

What you can do?: go up his shirt and take his shirt off of him. :]]

You can you don't have to do anything back.

Is it weird?: Not at all.... As a woman you have wants and your hormones are wanting to do something.

o****m?: No.

s*x soon?: Possibly... Depends what kind of guy it is.

I enjoy it when guys that I am dating go up my bra.... No guy has ever went inside my pants though....

Don't go to far till your ready.

Answer 6

even though he was just touching you, it's like fingering

he might do the same thing but if not then just guide his hands down there. just keep kissing him and moan a LITTLE bit, even if it doesn't feel good. he'll like that. that was not an o****m and no its not weird to feel like that. but anyways this will lead to s*x. this is what guys do when they wanna get ready for s*x

Answer 7

Yes, it is fingering and there is nothing wrong with that. As long as your boyfriend knows you don't want to have actual s*x, it's ok and you're a virgin. You can touch his "private" if you wish to, if there is no pressure into doing it, then do as you please. Be wise, smart, and responsible. No, doing that doesn't really mean he wants to have s*x soon. A relationship takes time to grow and during that time things happen in stages. Make sure love is a definate aspect.

Fingering can be rubbing the C**t outside the vaginia or inside.

Answer 8

You should just have s*x with him if you enjoyed getting felt on.

Answer 9

Relax! as long as you are comfortable with what he is doing then this is perfectly normal.

Just go with your natural reactions if it feels good tell him or let him know by giving him a smile like you did last time.

If your boyfriend wants you to do something back then he will probably tell you but don't feel pressured.

I doubt that you had an o****m but it is definitely not weird that it made you feel good.

He may want to have s*x soon but if you don't feel ready then just tell him, if he's worth it he'll understand.

Fingering doesn't have to involve inserting his fingers into your v****a, it can just be stimulating the genital area like you described

Answer 10

try to wait before having s*x, but when you do, USE PROTECTION!

s*x is good but not worth dying for, and lots of girls get pregnant the first time.  

Answer 11

Well if he knows you aren't ready, then just watch out.

In its ways, it's okay to enjoy it. But make sure it won't get any further than that.

He's YOUR boyfriend, so you tell us if that means he wants to have s*x soon.

xox- Julie