Adopt with fathers Name?

Question

"Call your child with their own father's Name" It is a religious word. I adopted a child. If the child believe I am his father;

if he has a genetical decease he couldn't be solved the problem. He also might marry his own sister unknowingly.

If he knows he is a orphan he will be mentally fallen.

Shell I aware him the truth or not.

Answer 1

Always tell the truth.  It is widely accepted in adoption that keeping this information from another is not only unethical, but also very unhealthy. Also, he more than likely will find out eventually.  A great many do.  The problems caused for "late discovery adoptees" are great.

http://www.latediscovery.org/

http://www.adopting.org/LDA.html

Every person deserves the truth about his or her own full identity.  

I am adopted and always knew this.  I am so glad no one hid the truth from me.

Answer 2

You should always be honest with a child about being adopted. You should not lie to your children. Because then when they find out when they are older they will stop trusting you. And making them believe tthat they are from you is lying.

Answer 3

Absolutley. I think all adopted children have the right to know the truth.