Adoptees question.....?

Question

if ever had an arguement with the bio sibling(S) did they ever say anything like "haha my mom and dad arent your real parents" or "your mom dont want you" or things out of spit like that???????

Answer 1

ALL the time.

Her line was "I'm their REAL daughter, you don't count!"

Mine was " they CHOSE to have me.. you were a Mistake!"

Answer 2

I only had an older adopted brother but he was cruel enough without needing any other siblings.  :)

Answer 3

Never been in an arguement with my bio siblings.  Maybe because I'm at least 12 years older than any of them.

Answer 4

Luckily my aparents and their bio daughter have never done that, but for some reason when there have been fights and stuff....I can't help but feel like I'm just not good enough for them.

Answer 5

Yes when we were kids (my parents had two bio kids, I was the only adopted one)

My father even said it once when he was really really mad, he felt really bad about it but I've never forgotten that incident, albeit a single isolated one :(

Answer 6

that is cruel and should not be allowed

Answer 7

I am adopted but so is my only other sibling..... so no srry.... but I think it would be hurtful

Answer 8

omigosh yes!  but my sis and i get along great now.  i understand that she was just trying to "hit me where it hurts."

Answer 9

Yes.  And all I could ever think was, "THANK GOD"!

Answer 10

Nope, and I don't think it even occurred to her. However, someone said it to me at school growing up. I just told them that my parents got to choose to have me, where their parents have no choice. Seemed to shut them up.

Answer 11

When my little sister was like 5 and I was 15 we were at a fast food restaurant and she sat down and I went to sit with her and she said "you can't sit here, your not my real sister, someone else had you".  I felt like she had punched me in the stomach.  She didn't know what she was saying, I don't even know where she got that from.  I know she doesn't feel that way, never really did.  It hurt.  My best guess is that someone at her school told her that.  It was almost 29 years ago and I still remember it but she doesn't.  Kids can be so cruel!

Answer 12

Not my sibling, but my dad's sis can't help but talk about me as "the adopted one" whenever she gets the chance.

Kids can be mean, they say mean things.  Adults are just stupid if they lower themselves to kids things . . .