I'm an adopted child, and having met a few others in my life, am struck by the fact that feel like I'm in the minority because I'm not going to look for my birth parents.
I just feel like my adopted parents ARE my parents; they took care of me when I was sick, shouted at me when I let my schoolwork slip, and cried at my wedding. It wasn't all easy by a long shot (in fact, when I was a teenager we had some downright awful times) but they were always my parents. Who else could I call Mom and Dad?
Also, who knows where my birth mother is? I wish her all the best, but if she's got her life together, does she need me to shift her balance? It just seems too complicated for everyone involved.
Like I said, though, I know I'm in the minority. Are there any other adoptees out there who are not planning to find their birth parents? Why or why not?
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