Follow up from Gaia's question earlier. We have an adopted toddler. He is just starting to get into the independent stage. I would describe us as relatively strict....we address behavior immediately as often as possible with time outs. We are not using spanking as a discipline technique. When I ask him to do something or stop some behavior, he will frequently respond with 'no' and wave his arm like a punch. He has also started stomping his feet and falling to the floor in tantrums. At 1 1/2 years old, does he *know* what he is being placed in time out for? Does he get it that I want him to not say 'no' and to not 'hit' at me? As soon as he is out of time out, he will usually start it again the next time I have a request. We have only been doing time out for about 1 1/2 weeks, but for the exact same behavior each time. We warn him for the first time, sit him in time out for 2 min. afterwards, and explain both at start and finish.
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