Adoption of my sister baby?

Question

My sister has a son who is 2 going on 3. She is due to have her second child in one month. Shes accepted adoption yet when i heard this my heart sang a different tune. I was wanting her to have the adoption because i know she cant handle being a single mom with two kids with no father. I want to adopt the baby ... Am I crazy, am i suffering a loss that i dont know of... Or am i wrong to suggest that I want to have the baby. What do you think?

Answer 1

I  was given up for adoption when I was an infant. It was the most loving and unselfish thing my mother could have ever done for me. I was given such a gift and my life was forever changed. I was able to get a college education and be very successful. My family who adopted me were able to provide me with everything my mother wasn't able to because she was young. The most important thing in adoption is finding a couple who has a strong family, financially secure to offer your child and education and everything else they will ever need, and a house that has love beyond words to give!!!


I always knew I was adopted and every day I am so thankful and feel so blessed for the life she allowed me to have. I can only say that it is a hard thing to do, but I am proof that pure love of a birthmother can open doors for the future for their child.


My husband and I are now in the process of wanting to adopt. We have an amazing life and I want to give back, what was given to me. If I can help you in any way please let me know. I wish you the very best and if you ever want to talk you can contact me [e-mail]

Sincerely,

Kristin