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Question

would you Adoption .If yes then why not get started ?

if no why?

id love to but im in ill health

Answer 1

i've never had kids, i don't think i could handle adopting kids now as i'm in the middle 40's.my partner has 2 kids but doesn't want any more

Answer 2

Yes - we did adopt and plan to again.

Answer 3

I would love to Adoption a child, but i dont know how to find them. I know its have to be over 21years old to have Adoption baby. But i would like to get ready by then. Please help.

Answer 4

Not only would I, I have. My husband and I adopted our children who were aged 8 and 5 when they came to us. They are 20 and 17 now & they just blow me away every day with what amazing people they are.

Answer 5

im only 21 yrs i have children of my own, but as a child i always said i would adopt,and i still do, one day when my children have grown up and started there own family , i will  achieve my dream of becoming a foster/adoptive parent.giving another  beautiful human something that they realy need..love and security.

Answer 6

i was adopted so yes i would adopt  but my bf wouldnt i dont know why he just wouldnt. Its a shame your in ill health as there are lots of children out there wanting a loving parent. Have you spoken to someone? would you be able to foster?

Answer 7

i was adopted at age 2 without my consent

and i resent it

they had no right to change my name

and i will change it before i die so i can have my real name on my headstone--i was not even told until i was 11

which took me for a spin

i met my real father before he died and he said he thought it would be best for me

shows you how much adults know

Answer 8

IF YOU COULDNT ADOPT HER . MAYBE YOU COULD BE HER LIKE BIG BROTHER/ BIG SISTER KIND OF DEAL. JUST BECAUSE YOU CANT ADOPT HER CUZ YOUR ILL DOESNT MEAN FOR YOU TO GIVE UP ON HER.  IF I WAS IN YOUR SHOES I WOULD NOT.

Answer 9

I would love to adopt, and as soon as my fiancee get married and buy our own house ( in the next year) we are going to adopt, we plan on having 2 of our own children and plan on adopting 2, and maybe having a foster home as well. I hate seeing kids without any-one who really cares for them. i love kids so much and i believe that they all deserve a loving family. someone to love them. i am very excited to and really can't wait. by the way we are planning on adopting older children.

Answer 10

i've planned on adopting one or two children for years now. i haven't yet because i'm still in college, not married, and i'll be in the army for at least four years after i graduate.

Answer 11

I would almost certainly adopt a child. My mother is currently undergoing the process of adopting a little boy who she has been fostering for 5 years now (since he was 18 months old).

I would love to adopt a child with special needs (as these children are often the ones who are extremely difficult to find adoptive parents for especially so the children from ethnic minorities) however i do not currently have the space in my house to adopt a child (you are normally required to have a spare bedroom if you want to adopt a child).

I would also like to do fostering, however i am currently pregnant and would want to wait until my child is around 10 years old before i start fostering or adopting.

Answer 12

If I could'nt have children then I would adopt, there are alot of little souls out there that need love.

Answer 13

Would I what in adoption?  Would I lose a child to adoption?  Been there, done that, never again.

Would I adopt?  Most likely not in the way adoption is done in today's society.  I cannot support the unethical, for profit, and sealed records that exist today.

Would I support adoption reform?  I'm doing that now already.

Would I try to make a difference so less women lose their children to adoption?  *Absolutely*

Answer 14

Would we - yes have we - No, the reason is we have 4 children of our own, now when these have grown up and left the nest then I think we would look as foster, or adoption. But more likely foster care.

I hope you health improves and you become able to help someone in need.

Answer 15

I am an adult adoptee and I always felt that someday I would adopt a child, even if I had kids of my own.  I always figured on I'd adopt a special needs or hard to place child.

When I was married to my ex, who is also an adult adoptee he was against the idea, so I let it go.

We divorced and I remarried a man who has full custody of his daughter who is special needs. Her BM is menatllay handicapped and when she was raising the baby on her own, she put her in dnger and finally admitted she could not raise her, so she gave custody to the father.

We all have a good relationship and a few months ago the BM asked me if I would adopt her daughter.  

The reasons are mostly legal ones. My husband has some health issues and if he were to pass away before the child is 18, as a step parent I really don't have any legal rights to the child.

The mother has gone on record that she cannot raise the child. We don't ever want her ripped out of the only home she has ever known and into foster care or whatever.  So if I legally adopt her then I am her legal parent and no matter what happens, I will always have the right to finish raising her.

So the adoption process has been started. It's funny how I always felt I'd adopt, but I never figured on it happening this way.

The BM will stay in my daughter's life as long as she wants to.  Sometimes I have the feeling she will fade away. She dosen't have alot to do with the baby when she is around, but maybe that's part of her disability, not knowing how to show proper affection..