Adoption!!?

Question

i am adopted and i dont know my "real" dad and i have only met my adoptive mother once and i wanted to know who else is adopted so i can see how many other people are too.

Answer 1

I adopted 5 kids and I was adopted as well. I met my birth mom and  and still have a relationship with her. I don't know my birth father either. He knows I exist but has chosen not to contact me.  As I got older I understood the reasons I was put up for adoption. I was mad at them at first for not wanting me but they found great parents to raise me and I love them all.

Answer 2

There are many people. I have one friend who was left under a table at a temple in China, and was brought to America. We still have no clue to who her biological parents are.

Her mother also gives her most of the things she wants too because she doesn't want her to feel bad about not knowing her parents. It's nothing to worry about. Life goes on.

Answer 3

l'm adopted, and l've met both birth 'parents', and they're fine.  They're nice enough people, but l don't have any connection to them, you know?  l like them both well enough, but in the same way as l would any random person l met.  l had great parents though, l don't know if that makes a difference or not. (l'm not saying your parents were bad!).

Answer 4

I was adopted, and I have a burning desire to learn who my true parents are. My Adoptive dad would embarrass me If he was there, and my Adoptive mom is dead, so...

Still. I would Die to meet my true mom.

Answer 5

Your "real dad" is the man who raised you. The other guy is a sperm donor who doesn't deserve the title "dad." It is interesting to know who your biological "parents" were, but the only real parents you ever had are the ones you grew up with.

Answer 6

hi Hun....I'm adopted and have met up with my "real dad" and "real mum"we get along great...i had to deal with upsetting allot of my adopted family who didn't understand but you have to do whats right for you right?

i have quite a few adopted friends and each story is so different...i also have a close friend who gave a child up....i can see it from all sides and it can be a hard situation to be in complicated to but as-long as your true to yourself and respect your own self-worth then your OK

hope your dealing with it well :)

Answer 7

there is nothing wrong with being adopted.  My husband is adopted he has no desire to meet his bio dad.  He doesn't feel he has missed out on anything and has a lot of respect for his adoptive parents.  We adopted our son.  But, we decided that if one day he wanted to know his parents we woulds help him and have kept track of his bio-mom for the future.  He knows we love him and would give him the world. We have always been honest with him.  I know from experience that sometimes when we find people we are looking for it doesn't always turn out for the best and sometimes it is better left alone.  But, for med reasons it is nice to know. And just for ourselfs.