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As some of you know we have a foster son we are in the process of adopting. He is of similar ethnicity and race as us and people say things like Oh wow he looks so much like you. Or they ask my wife was your labor hard? My fav he has lots of hair they asked her if she had heart burn while pregant. She just says things like no the labor didn't hurt at all, thank you and no no heart burn. Her rational is she does not want to start a huge discussion in the grocery store about that he is our adoptive son and or foster son. She feels that it is none of their business. We are not pretending with people in our lives that we gave birth to and we will tell him he is adopted. She sees it as more of a privacy issue and none of the strangers business. How did you handel questions like that I am especially intersted with adoptee who knew they were adopted. How did you handel things in school how did you handel questions of which parent do you look like.I say I don't care what they think. How did you handel or do you handel comments like this
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