My sister is two years younger than me. We're both in our 30s and married with families of our own. We live just a few blocks from each other, but she rarely calls me -- and always makes an excuse to hang up quickly when I call her. And she'll always promise to call back once she's not busy anymore but, as you probably guessed, I rarely get a return call.
Likewise.... she never invites me anywhere, and seems to have an excuse ready whenever I try to invite her out. I would chalk it up to simply being a busy mom, but she always seems to make time for her friends and acquaintances. I can't imagine she treats other people as rudely as she treats me, so why does she think it's ok to treat me like this???
I know I have not done anything to upset her. It just seems as if she is distancing herself from me and I can't figure it out. If I try to talk to her about it, she just makes light of it, and makes me feel as if I'm being overly sensitive. So the subject gets dropped, as I don't want to make myself seem "desperate" for her attention. Know what I mean?
But in my heart of hearts, this truly bothers me. We don't have much family on our side anymore and I don't want us to lose each other. I just feel like I simply don't matter to her anymore. Have you ever gone through something like this? Can you think of a way I can approach this without causing a fight?
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