Adultery before and after marriage?

Question

Than why is he staying with her ? Do you think he loves her ?

Answer 1

Adultery is after one is married and cheats.

Sounds as though he is in love with her and simply took a moment to have s*x on the side and felt he would not get caught. My opinion, lack of integrity and selfishness is this individuals issue.  

Answer 2

I don't think he loves her.  If he did he wouldn't cheat on her.    I think he does what is most convenient for him.   He wants to have a wife and the things that come with that,  and do his own thing on the side as well.  

Perhaps the wife thought,  once married he would change. And it hasn't been so.  He continues to do all the things he did before.  If she is unhappy, and not willing to put up with his cheating.  She can divorce him.  People like him don't change.  They don't care about hurting others.   They just think of themselves, and what they want.

Answer 3

Love is blind.

Answer 4

If he is cheating on his wife then he doesn't love or respect her enough to stay faithful.

And why is he staying probably cause he doesn't want to have to pay alimony and child support if they have kids.

Answer 5

I'm guessing he was the one who cheated? I had a friend who married her boyfriend who cheated before their marriage. And sure enough, after they were married he did it again. They worked through it and they're fine now. But it is something to think about before getting married. I'm sure this guy loves her. But it's a selfish love. And that will be their whole lives and marriage together.  

Answer 6

There is no such thing as pre-marriage adultery, since adultery is cheating on a spouse.  However, there is such a thing as s******g around with others when you are dating, and if that be the case, why would anyone get married in the first place to someone who cheats?

Why is he staying with her?  That is his business and none of my business.  I can't read his mind, and don't want to.