Advice!!!!!!!!? I need some advice please?

Question

ok look, people keep saying to me that i'm a poser becuase I listen to metal music and all the girls I talk to get freaked out because I listen to death metal and all my old friends are turning behind my back and I can't seem find a reason why to get out of bed in the morning and I think that it's true, all I want to do is cry and I just can't because sometimes I can't feel anything, what should I do??

Answer 1

I'm not sure I understand your question.

Are you're depressed? You have trouble finding a reason for your life. So, you listen to death metal and it worries your friends so they avoid you or talk behind your back?

You listen to death metal, your friends don't like it because they think your faking your death metal preference so they've abandoned you and made you depressed?

Which came first, the chicken or the egg?

Answer 2

Sounds like a rough situation. If you have a close friend, or a close family member sit down and talk with them. If not, I suggest seeing a counselor. It never hurts to just let things out before they sit there too long and become a problem.  

Answer 3

Find people with similar interests..try going to gigs and concerts of your favourite band you are sure to meet lots of people who share the same interest.

Answer 4

See your doctor.

Answer 5

HMMM I LIKE DEATH METAL TOO. UMM WHAT BANDS DO YOU LIKE

Answer 6

you can always make new friends who share the same interests. if your old friends judge you on your musical taste then they're not worth it anyway.

Answer 7

you listen to death metal

but u wanna cry...

hmmmmmm

=]

Answer 8

Your taking everything too seriously.

You sound young forget about what people say and enjoy life.

If you like listening to death metal your not alone i'm sure you know that. If girls are freaked out about it then that's their problem and you can't help that unless you stop liking death metal for them.

This all seems to be going in a negative cycle, your self esteem probably hasn't been great and your probably giving off bad vibes to your friends, your friends probably think that you don't like them or are too negative to be around (possibly). As you start to notice this you self esteem continues to go down. Now you are here.

First i suggest you chuck on some of your death metal, sit in your room, and just jump around and get rid of a bit of angst or sit and listen to a sad song and cry it all out.

Apart from the not wanting to get out of bed in the morning your problems aren't so great. You need to realise that you still have a lot to live for.

To deal with your problems just write them down, paint them, play them on guitar etc.

You just want to vent, get all your problems out of the way and get on with your day because that's what will be most effective for you right now.

I've been pretty straight forward with you, even though I'm sorry to see you feel this way.

Hope this helps.

Chloe =]

Answer 9

Well add more details about which death metal you listen to and I can tell you if your a poser or not