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okay well here is the issue... i am seventeen years old and i am in my last year of high school and it should feel like the time of my life right? but see it doesn't. i feel that since it is my senior year i should have just about everything including a good relationship. but i haven't had that... in a long time, ever since the ninth grade. and i wonder why boys only think of me as "just a friend" or a "hella cool person". am i not pretty enough or what? and really what is soo wrong with not going out with the best looking girl? what i am basically trying to say is why don't or can't i pull the guys like all those other females or even just be talking to someone? i don't want to be left in the dust and watch everyone else pass me by. and i want to stop all my some what called... promiscuity. HELLLPPPP.

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Answer 1

Hey.

Don't feel like that.

I was the /exact/ same way.

I hardly dated in high school, until my senior year.

Around November I started dating a guy, and we're still together.

I only met him when I looked outside of my high school.

... and I'm so glad that I did because he is just wonderful.

It's not you, hon.

You just haven't found the right guy yet.

I thought it was me for a while, that I wasn't attractive enough, but most guys outside of high school find me to be.

... So just be patient. c: He will come along.

Answer 2

There isn't a rule that says that you HAVE to be with somebody in high school.  You could just choose to have fun for your senior year.  There is too much preasure to date in high school and all that hype is created by the media and tv.  Just be yourself, have fun.  Relax.  Trust me....soon, you will be drowning in all that life throws at you.  Enjoy your youth and freedom while you can.    

Answer 3

There is someone out there for everyone, its your senior year, focus on graduating, look at  it as you have no boy drama in your life rite now. but seriously: when the time is rite, God will send you that special someone.

Answer 4

Enjoy with what you have right now! (:

You have your girlfriends, right? They are all that should matter.

You're a senior, this happens only once in your life. College will open doors for more relationships, and better ones too.

I'm sure you're beautiful - just have confidence. Boost up your self esteem (:

And talk to guys. Even if they're just "friends". Who knows something awesome may happen. :D

Some girls don't even have guy friends, like me. So feel lucky, I guess :p

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Answer 5

ok let me make you feel better and tell you that me and my brother had the same problem,exactly down to the last letter.

we could get dates, none of the girls wanted to go out with us , and the year wasnt that fun and all that stuff like you are going through.

i know its hurtful and it makes you feel somewhat wierd but dont be. you are normal.

when you get to college is really the best years of your life, no highschool. highschool is just a stupid phase with lots of drama and trouble.

in college im actually the popular guy, i got lots of girls coming after me, and i acutally in the process of a girlfriend that came after me and not the other way around.

so dont feel down. be happy and enjoy your last year in the prison..i mean school lol :-)

hope that helps

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Answer 6

I think that you are putting too much focus into this. And usually when you want something so badly it doesn't come to you. Just try to have fun and finish up school and prepare for college if those are your future plans. And you'll see that when your not looking for it. It will just come to you. You are still young and beautiful and there is still plenty of time left for you and dating and all of that. Just let it come to you, don't chase after it. Leave it alone and you'll see what happens. Trust me on that. Just have fun and enjoy life. Hope that helps

Answer 7

At 17 years old, and a senior in High School, your life shouldn't revolve around have a boyfriend.  There's more to life, besides you can't force it.  The right one will come along when you least expect it.  You are making yourself look desperate, don't do that.  Live life, have fun, and have fun with friends and family.  Like i said, the right guy will come along, even if it's not until next year!

Answer 8

being in a relationship isn't the most important thing in the world.

if nothing else it leaves you too be able to act crazy with your friends whenever you want and not worry if what you're doing will upset your bf

maybe guys think of you as "just a friend" cause they think you are special and don't want to mess up having a relationship with you?

no one says that you aren't pretty enough, and it's the inner beauty that counts the most not theouterr beauty

and who knows maybe that special someone will ask you and they're just shy. you just need to let it happen naturally cause of course it will happen only when you stop looking

you should just enjoy your senior year with your friends