Advice Wanted..Please Help.?

Question

Maybe like 5 weeks, my friend and I stop being friends. I really don't even know why, but this always happens..he just stops talking to me for a long time, but we eventually begin talking again. But this time is different, he moved me off of her top on myspace, and other things like that. When we usually stop talking, he never takes it that far. Every time we stop being friends, I am always the one to apologize, and I refuse to keep doing that especially when my friend never admits to being wrong. Any way, the real problem is I joined the marching band about 2 weeks later after our friendship was over, and I was just fine. But once I noticed that he really did not want to ever talk to me again, I lost my appetite. Some days I would eat dinner just fine and other days I have to force myself to eat. I do not eat breakfast or lunch anymore, but I do eat dinner just because I know I need to eat something. I am just not hungry anymore, and I have a hard time finishing my food. Do you think my appetite is gone because I am busy more often [at band practice] or because of my friend? I need advice, thanks.

Just in case you wanna know...he's a taurus, and I am a Scorpio.

and I never/do not like him as anything more then a friend.

Answer 1

sometimes stress can cause our digestive system to whack out.

Answer 2

Well I'm sorry you are going through this.

I highly doubt that its the band practice that is making you lose your appetite.

However, it is highly likely that you are troubled over the loss of your friend and are therefore distracting yourself from eating.

However terrible a situation you must still eat otherwise you are putting yourself at risk from health problems and maybe even going to hospital.

Anyway my advice to you would be to try and move on for a while, give it about a month and then slowly approach this friend and try and find out what went wrong.

In the meanwhile keep at your band practise, focus on your other friends and please remember to eat :)

Good luck and i hope it all works out :)

xxxx

Answer 3

Umm, if he's going to act like that then he's not worth being friends with! I know that's easier said than done, but it's totally true. Make some new friends in marching band, and just stay acquaintances with him.

Answer 4

well, i think that your appetite has gone, just because for one thing, you are focusing a lot over your friend issue, and then also, you are probably focusing a lot on the band, so try laying off , concentrate on the good things happening with you, (like the band) instead of the put-downs(the friend).  

Answer 5

You are the one with the problem. Not the guy or friend or whatever he is to you. Until you tell yourself that you are ok with or without him you will sink further down. Eventually you'll come around to seeing it my way but you may require a lot more pain till you get there but I hope not!!

Love thyself and be kind to others. Volunteer time at a charity of your choice and freely give to others. This will help you greatly.

If you love unconditionally without demands you will give yourself much peace.

Answer 6

if you dont like him more than a friend than its not a big deal if hes even wants to be your freind than h**l say something eventually but for now you need to forget about him and eat breakfast=)

Answer 7

your friend sounds like an attention seeker. dont apologize this time. if he dosnt then its time to find a new friend.