I'm currently long-distance dating a guy that I met while I was doing a summer abroad in England. We dated for a month while I was there, and he wanted to continue the relationship, so I agreed. The problem is, he hints at the fact that he's intimidated by me. People have outright informed him (sometimes even while I am right there!) that he "doesn't deserve me" or his friends have told both of us that I "could do better." We come from different socio-economic backgrounds, and I guess I would be considered more attractive than he is (looks really don't matter though). I'm going to Oxford University in the fall, and he works as a mechanic and lives with his parents. None of this bothers me in the least, yet he continually puts himself down and compares his supposed shortcomings to my achievments. I think I could easily fall for this guy (he's funny, sweet, and extremely intelligent. I tell him all of this on an almost daily basis as well), but I don't want to be with him if it's going to hurt him. What can I do to convince him that he "deserves" me and looks/education are not an issue?
Thanks for any advice you can provide :)
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