Advice for Being Competitive?

Question

I'm really competitive, and I know sometimes people get bothered. I am a starter on my volleyball teams, so when we run drills, it really bothers me when others are not participating or doing the drill right. I don't know what to do, because I often get so mad it is hard to focus on the drill. Also, what should I say to people that get upset that I'm a starter and they (or someone else) isn't. I try to tell them that it's competitive and they should just try and get seen more at practice, but they just get mad at me. I work hard for my spot on the team, and I play club v-ball, too, but I don't think I have any unfair advantage.

Answer 1

Well then try to say something that other people don't know what it means.Or just say something encoruging

Answer 2

Just be really positive. Encourage your team mates.

And really praise them when they do something good. Sometimes I have the same problem so just be really encouraging!

Answer 3

i am the same way..

u just have to be patient and remember they may not be taking it as seriously as you are

if you try to help them and they get mad then dont help them

if it continues and becomes A bigger problem then talk to the coach

if you are a good player then ur coach should listen to you

hope this helps

i could write a more detailed answer but im afraid it would b too long

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