Advice needed here people?

Question

Well i am going to be asking my best female friend out for a date lol.

For her 21st birthday i am buying her this.

http://www.ernestjones.co.uk/webstore/detail/R/5202981/

Now we are both very good friends and spent a lot of time together. She is very protective over me and it is known that she does care about me. Well what i am wondering is what is the best way to ask her out and let her know that if she asks me out and she says no then i will still love to be friends with her.

In the long run do u think our friendship will be affected?

I have known her for 2 years and especially in the last one year she really cared about me. For example after a night out she would make a bed for me in her living room and ask me to sleep there. She would hate it if anyone would be a bit mean to me lol.

We have both spent a lot of time together and have also gone out for meals together alone.

So do u think all of this will change when she comes to knwo that i like her. She already know i liek someone and grilled me about it for 2 days until she gave up. She at the end was not pleased lol.

I unfortunately hurt her feelings once but she forgave me the very next day and said that '''Losing this friendhip over this matter would have been stupid on my behalf'

Anwyay so waht do u guys think?

i also know her families biggest secret lol. She has told me that i am the only person outside her family to know about it :)

Answer 1

you guys sound like two peas in a pod. i don't think asking her out or telling her that you like her as more than friends will end you guys if she said no. in my group of friends several of them have dated each other but they are all still great friends, if anything they care abou each other more now than ever, so you never know. it also sounds like she would be open to starting something or having feelings for you if she doesn't already. i don't think you have too much to worry about. good luck

Answer 2

Well, it seems like she trusts you a lot. Knowing the fact that she even told you her family's biggest secret. Lol. It's also so obvious that she cares a lot about you. I'm making this simple. For me, I don't think it'll change at all. But after she receives that gift, she might ponder on the whole thing for maybe days and probably realize that if she'd ignore you or change the way she treats you, she might think that it'll hurt you and probably she'll just take it normally.

Answer 3

hmm..just tell her how you feel..just be prepared for the consequences of your actions.who knows..maybe she feels the same for you..if not and you're just a best friend for her...accept it and continue to be her best friend. good luck

Answer 4

It sounds like she likes spending time with you. Maybe she's waiting for you to make a move. If she got upset when she was grilling you then she doesn't want your relationship to stop if involves someone else that may take your attention off her. Just be honest with her and say everything you've said on here. If she is a good friend then even if her feeling aren't the same then she will be flattered but you will have to move on. It's always worth taking a chance you will regret it if you never did anything. Good luck and let me know what happens!

Answer 5

well ok. first of all i must say that the gift you going to give her is really very nice

why dont yoy ask her to go out for a dinner & when you do go out just say to her hoe exactly you feel about her

dont make it dificult & tell her how you feel when you go out not before

so she is really special for you

i hope it works out for you!@

Answer 6

Call him sometimes that u r going somewhere irresistable place and u gonna have a lot of fun if she wants to join u then welcome,and surprise her..

I think she must response in a better way.

Answer 7

Ask her out in a very simple way letting her feel that it's alright if she says no... if she did say no, tell her you really actually love to keep you're friendship and most of all...DON'T BE THE FIRST ONE TO BE IN SECURED... act normally...