Advice on a new relationship..for a good guy that may not seem so?

Question

I have been seeing this girl for a month..It started off with a bang the first time we met.then I started playing hard to get, she as well as I know we both like it..or so it seems..our communication is no problem as we can talk forever about ants if need so..we never stop kissing or showing affection when being around each other.. I recently took a out of town week for my business...we talked some but marginal being i and she were busy..I then return to meet her one early day to suprise her at her restaurant..The embrace I got was not as expected as it was almost non-relevant..We did love on each other until evenings end but it makes me wonder is it there? I look at my surroundings and there was no mentioning to her friends of me much or showing me into her future it was different I thought..but did i create this? how do I stop it?..I do the same telling her we cannot be together and such i admit.. I do care for her alot but my past and other things probably make it seem I dont but does she even care at all for me to continue and open up my feelings one day if i choose so? Im stuck in the mud at this time..any advice would help this confused soul.:(

Answer 1

dude. its simple. talk to her. tell her these things. only she can answer those questions you just asked.

Answer 2

talk to her.  tell her you thought the two of you had a connection and you are just wondering what happened.  if she's changed her mind about you, hopefully she'll be honest and tell you.  body language says a lot but like the other person said, she could have been having a bad day and if that's true, she ought to tell you so you won't get the wrong impression.

Answer 3

That sounds really hard. wow did you ever think

if you really love her as much as you say you do

I mean try to talk to her about it I mean that

really is the only thing you can do. If you want a future

with this girl I mean communication is key. She

needs to know how you feel. and if you don't want to be so

blunt about it maybe mention your friend etc. start a convo

about that kind of stuff. good luck I hope it goes well

if you need anything else email me

Answer 4

Maybe she was having a bad day.

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