Hi, i am having trouble with my partner and my ex at the moment. I have just moved in with my boyfriend and we have a baby on the way and everything is going great. The only problem is that my ex, the father of my four year old son, isnt really pulling his weight like he should do. It has never bothered me before because it was just me that had to deal with him, but now it has become an issue for my partner because he can see that im being walked all over. Dont get me wrong my ex loves our son and is a good dad to him, but he is only 24 and puts his social life ahead of our son a lot of the time. The arrangement is that he has him one night in the week and one night at the weekend, usually 5pm sat to 5pm sun. He will suddenly announce that he is going on holiday, without asking if i had any plans, or for a random weekend away with the boys. Its not that i mind him having a social life but its like he just drops our son without a thought knowing that i will always be there.
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