Advice on how to deal with this moving situation???

Question

This guy who has been in my life my entire life has become like an older brother to me. I really look up to him and admire him a lot. He helps me through a lot of things and i really appreciate him. Unfortunately the company he works for is relocating from connecticut to new jersey. if he doesnt move he'll probably lose his job so he says he's probably gonna move in about 6 months. i see him two or 3 times a week right now but if he moves we'll only see him like once a month. i'm having a tough time dealing with this. i know it's best for him to move but i'll miss him sooooo much. i'm upset already so i know when the time comes for him to leave i'll be a wreck. how do i deal with this??

Answer 1

   This is new.  You will adjust somewhat as the time passes.  Be certain to have his new address and telephone numbers.  Make certain you have his new e mail account info.  Then have contact with him through  those sources.  And Connecticut is not far from New Jersey.  As you get older, your life becomes more hectic, so your contact with him would have decreased any way.

Answer 2

if he is going in about 6 months then it gives you a lot of time to prepare. i would suggest you try and "wean" yourself off him, maybe try and cut down the amount you see him now so it wont be so bad when he goes. and talk to him about this and see what he thinks I'm sure he feels the same as you in some respect.whe  it does come to the time he goes, try and keep really busy by getting a new hobby or join a class of some sort to keep your mind off him and the fact you miss him.

Answer 3

you just do that's all there is to it you know he has to go and you will miss him but you go on one day at a time and theres always email you know

Answer 4

if you care for him that much maybe you should let him know how you fell. if you have nothing to loose go with him