I am in the process of adopting my cousin. She will be 12 in Sept, and I am turning 21 in March. I also have an 8 month old baby. She lives in MI in a foster home. She and her younger sister, already adopted by the family she was placed with, were put in foster care in seperate homes 5 years ago after their father molested them. She has since developed R.A.D, Reactive Attachment Disorder. She is now indescrimiately affectionate and becomes attached to almost anyone she meets. Last month her fathers parental rights were finally revoked, and she became available for adoption. No one else in my family stepped up for her, so I did, and I have been approved. She will be comming to stay with me and my family in FL in 3 weeks. This will be a trial placement for 6 months, then we will go back up north to get it finalized.
Now for the question. Does anyone have any advice on raising a child only 8 years younger? Has anyone delt with her kind of RAD? How about a 12 year old and an infant?
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