Advice please! getting married this sat!!!!?

Question

i am getting married this sat. i feel so overwehlemed rigght now with work and my weddign being saturday. i feel like i have so much to do. i didnt take this work week off, it is a new job and im going on my honeymoon next week.

i feel so stressed and cant sleep. i am constantly thinkng abou tmy paper work, and constantly thinking about my wedding day. i am ao afraid i will be too nervouse to even say my vows. see, we origiannly thought we would have a smaller wedding with like 70 people. well, everyone we invited is coming and have rsvps, so we have 170 people!

about a month ago i pretty much had a panic attack, not abou wedding or work, but just had one. i am so afraid i will havea panic attack in front of all those people, and my work, i feel like i have no time! and i also need to fit in my workouts!! (i run)

any advicce for a overwhelmded bride?!!?! how to calm nerves! please i need tips!!!

Answer 1

CONGRATULATIONS!!! Honey, you just have before-wedding jitters. Happens to every girl...trust me. I know what will fix that: a pampering day at the spa! Many day spas offer bridal treatments. And...relax. This should be the happiest day of your life, not the most nervous.

Answer 2

First, stop everything and breathe.  Now, as far as work is concerned, if you are behind, don't worry.  You must organize everything you have.  Put the paperwork in stacks sorted by priority.  Then, just start at the top and work your way down.  You can only do so much in a day, so as long as the really important stuff is done, there's no reason to panic or worry.

Second, running is a great way to relieve stress, but if you don't feel you have the time, don't do it.  And worrying about eating too much or gaining weight is ridiculous.  You will not gain weight by putting off running or eating more than usual for just this week.

Third, and most important, don't worry about being in front of everyone reciting your vows.  This day is not about your guests hearing you speak, it's about you and your Fiance pledging your love and commitment to each other.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you are stressing yourself out over nothing.  Your stress is being caused by your overthinking things that haven't even happened yet.  You cannot control everything, so just focus on each day at a time.  Don't worry about tomorrow or the next day, just worry about today.  Things will be fine and by Sunday you'll be laughing about how much you overreacted.

Good luck!

Answer 3

First of all. stop and take a deep breath.........There, now doesn't that feel better?  Sweetie, you are trying to concentrate on everything at once. No one, not even Superman, has that ability! Take it one day and one thing at a time. You only have so many hours in a day and can, therefore, only do so much in a day. Do what you can and be willing to let the rest sit until tomorrow.

Instead of squeezing your workouts into your day, for get them for this week and pamper yourself by using that hour for something relaxing like a bubble bath or a massage. That will help eliminate some of your stress - and it feels good, too.

On your wedding day, don't worry about anyone in the crowd or even the crowd itself. Keep your eyes focused on only one person, the lucky guy that gets to be with you for the rest of his life. Look at him and only him. What you can't see or think about, won't bother you. Just look at your groom and everything will be just fine.

Answer 4

I am so glad im not you right now! :) Im getting married on August 9th, so still 2 weeks away from feeling what you are right now. Im getting nervous right now so I have no advise. I cant concentrate on anything and im STRESSING bad.. What if my wedding doesnt go smooth. Or what if the florist forgets some of my flowers or my pregnant bridesmaid doenst fit into her dress. Or worse yet, what if I start my period on my wedding day and dont relise it until im walking down the aisle and people are laughing at me because i have blood all over my dress..... The point is. Its normal to stress about every little scenerio.. Just lock yourself in a room by yourself with your favorite music and just LAY THERE and tell yourself everything is gonna be ok.. It doenst matter if everything is a desaster because by the end of the day, you are gonna be a wife, and thats the most importnat.

Answer 5

Well sweetie you only have until Saturday and all of this stress will be down because all of your planning and getting things together will be put to rest.  And on Saturday when you are in front of those just picture yourself just being in the room with your husband only and no one else and as far as weight you are not going to gain that much weight in a week you will be fine, trust, you're worrying to much.  Everything is going to be perfect.  congratulations

Answer 6

Okay, RELAX.  No one can really calm you down except you.  Try some deep breathing and a little pampering (bubble bath, pedicure). When I get stressed about my wedding, I always remind myself that all of this stuff is just what I have to do to get what I really want, a married to my fiance.  If these are the hurdles I have to jump over to get there, then so be it.

Keep your eye on the prize and you will be fine.

Answer 7

Try to completely free your mind from the stress.  Que sera, sera!  Whatever will be, will be and stressing about what could go wrong is only going to make it worse.  Why don't you try sitting alone and deep breathing and visualizing everything on your wedding day going perfectly and smoothly.  I think this is very normal so realize this and don't let the fact that you are stressed make you even more stressed.  If you start running again it could also help with your anxiety.  Try Advil PM for the week as it is gentle and will help you stay asleep through the night.

Answer 8

Ok ready INHALE EXHALE INHALE EXHALE

That's what you need to do.

Take one step at a time.  There is nothing you can do between today and Wednesday for the wedding that you can't do on Thursay or Friday (or at least after work).  So while you are at work, focus on work.  Push the wedding stuff to the side. Then on Wednesday, after work, you can think about last minute details for the wedding.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

You need to laugh.

Take your husband to be, go to the tallest point in your area (preferably away from people) and just start screaming. Get him to do it too. Just keep doing it until you are both out of breath.

Trust me, this will calm you down.