Advice wanted here people. Asking for the last time?

Question

Well i am going to be asking my best female friend out for a date lol.

For her 21st birthday i am buying her this.

http://www.ernestjones.co.uk/webstore/detail/R/5202981/

Now we are both very good friends and spent a lot of time together. She is very protective over me and it is known that she does care about me. Well what i am wondering is what is the best way to ask her out and let her know that if she asks me out and she says no then i will still love to be friends with her.

In the long run do u think our friendship will be affected?

I have known her for 2 years and especially in the last one year she really cared about me. For example after a night out she would make a bed for me in her living room and ask me to sleep there. She would hate it if anyone would be a bit mean to me lol.

We have both spent a lot of time together and have also gone out for meals together alone.

So do u think all of this will change when she comes to knwo that i like her. She already know i liek someone and grilled me about it for 2 days until she gave up. She at the end was not pleased lol.

I unfortunately hurt her feelings once but she forgave me the very next day and said that '''Losing this friendhip over this matter would have been stupid on my behalf'

Anwyay so waht do u guys think?

i also know her families biggest secret lol. She has told me that i am the only person outside her family to know about it :)

Answer 1

One of the main building blocks of a loyal and long term relationship begins with being friends not lust....  and relationships that last are those relationship where there is a third party....

God....if God be for you ....who could be against you...I last read that 97% of those relationships that include Jesus last and last and last....HOW COOL IS THAT....to actually remain together, raising your children together- in the ways of the Lord so that they will also be blessed.....HOW COOL TO KNOW that you have a partner for life and that you both know how to honor one another in the most loving and intimate of ways... HIS!

God promises to give us all of our hearts desires...He is kind and humble and gentle and ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD...SO BEFORE YOU ASK HER OUT....ASK JESUS TO COME INTO YOUR HEART  AS YOUR LORD AND SAVIOR -BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART THAT HE DIED FOR YOUR SINS....AND ASK HIM TO GIVE YOU FAVOR WITH THIS SPECIAL FRIEND...

He loves to love us!!!

Answer 2

tbh, i think she thinks your alreeady a couple lol

Answer 3

when you give her the necklace (which is very pretty by the way :), i wish i was your friend!!) ask her would u like to go out with me sometime on a date??

Answer 4

Know of cases where mates get together and lose a friend. Knew my fiance for five years before we got together. We were both with other people but always got on like a house on fire. We were in the same bike club and seemed to be the only ones that could understand our sense of humour! I couldn't do well without him at my side now. Best thing I ever did! I wish you all the luck in the world, whatever the outcome.

Answer 5

I think instead of that wonderful necklace you should buy a ring, and get married =]

you guys seem like you were made for each other... and i can tell you like her ; )

anyways, on a more serious note, No, i dont think your friendship will be affected.. i think ya'll will be fine.

so go ahead, have fun

Answer 6

Sometimes taking your friendship to the next level can ruin a great friendship...  Proceed with caution... You both may regret it or you both may benefit from it... The answer lies within your hearts....